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Old 11-02-2021, 01:48 PM
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Family Law and Court is a huge joke.
If you allow it so.
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Old 11-03-2021, 10:37 AM
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If you allow it so.
No it is. There are next to zero repurcussions for bad behaviour.

A simple case about custody and access can drag for YEARS if your ex drags their feet, constantly requests extensions to push off court appearances, negotiate with your lawyer like a yo-yo to drive up your costs, file lengthy briefs to drive up your costs, tell judge at SCs that you are close only to walk away and say that you are far apart just to delay the inevitable outcome...

Then judges rarely award costs for fear of causing "further conflict". Family court and law IS a joke.
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Old 11-03-2021, 11:16 AM
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All your complaints are man made. If you stick to the system for resolution, you'll find it in a "reasonable" time frame. Don't stop for meditation, negotiations, anything. All that can be done while awaiting your next appointment. If you allow delays, there will be delays. Don't be the joke that blames it on the system.
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Old 11-03-2021, 03:56 PM
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And when your ex discovered that she would have to pay you $X, she could easily play aloof or stubborn and negotiate for hours with your lawyer on the matter to drive up your legal costs to the point you let the matter go to stop the bleeding.

Family Law and Court is a huge joke.
it goes under equalization payment
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