Hello everyone,
First, English is not my first language so please do not "see" the mistakes!!!
I have been separated for about 18 months.
I still live in the house with my 10 years old son and my 8 years old daughter. He hasn't paid anything for the children or the house since he left.
He is self-employed and doesn't declare his income. he is saying that he is leaving to make a business and live in Mexico and of course he wants to sell the house50/50 (I proposed him 75/25 no child support but he said he rather lost everything...)
I did see a lawyer once who told me that we could go to court and ask to put his 50% in a trust fund which would become child support for the next decade or so.
Lawyers are to expensive and there is no garantee.
Anyway I don't find the law fair at all and in my case not helpfull.
I find that I am punish because I have a job and I've been honest...
If he actually leaves, I assume I need too get officially cosduty of the children...
I am a bit lost...
First, English is not my first language so please do not "see" the mistakes!!!
I have been separated for about 18 months.
I still live in the house with my 10 years old son and my 8 years old daughter. He hasn't paid anything for the children or the house since he left.
He is self-employed and doesn't declare his income. he is saying that he is leaving to make a business and live in Mexico and of course he wants to sell the house50/50 (I proposed him 75/25 no child support but he said he rather lost everything...)
I did see a lawyer once who told me that we could go to court and ask to put his 50% in a trust fund which would become child support for the next decade or so.
Lawyers are to expensive and there is no garantee.
Anyway I don't find the law fair at all and in my case not helpfull.
I find that I am punish because I have a job and I've been honest...
If he actually leaves, I assume I need too get officially cosduty of the children...
I am a bit lost...
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