What you NEED to do is talk amongst the adults, like parents. Leave the kids out of the conversation. The two of you together need to come up with a plan on how to handle things when their wants to run back and forth between homes because she simply doesn't like something.
Your JOB as a parent is to back up and support the other parent and vice versa.
You need to find out the 'why' and address that, but I guarantee you that letting the kid up and leave to the other parent's house whenever she doesn't like the rules is NOT the answer. Consider how you would feel if there was an issue between you and the child that caused her to decide she wants to run back to mom's, instead of mom supporting you and saying 'hey, you can't be disrespectfull, call dad names and break all the rules ', she shows up, takes the kid and all her stuff and you don't hear from the kid until the situation is happening in reverse.
Stop letting the kid run the show and PARENT.
Your JOB as a parent is to back up and support the other parent and vice versa.
You need to find out the 'why' and address that, but I guarantee you that letting the kid up and leave to the other parent's house whenever she doesn't like the rules is NOT the answer. Consider how you would feel if there was an issue between you and the child that caused her to decide she wants to run back to mom's, instead of mom supporting you and saying 'hey, you can't be disrespectfull, call dad names and break all the rules ', she shows up, takes the kid and all her stuff and you don't hear from the kid until the situation is happening in reverse.
Stop letting the kid run the show and PARENT.
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