Actually my husband didn't give and take. He just gave lol. Seriously. He also pays the high range of SS. And no he didn't cheat. Mom does live with their maid of honours husband though - and has since date of separation lol.
Links' opinion is irrelevant and moot. It IS a done deal. And one we honour without complaint. And no Links you do not have an academic opinion unless you can show me your peer reviewed academic publication to go with it.
You know, it is beyond me how we come to this very moment in time - dad honoured his marriage even when it fell apart. He didn't want to give her "just enough" or the bare minimum. He can afford to pay her more than many and he decided to do just that. And people are finding fault in this? When we agree to this without any court intervention it's wrong? Come on. This is HC at its finest!
And to clarify, I did not say women who receive spousal are money hungry bitches. I said NOT EVERY woman is a money hungry bitch.
Links' opinion is irrelevant and moot. It IS a done deal. And one we honour without complaint. And no Links you do not have an academic opinion unless you can show me your peer reviewed academic publication to go with it.
You know, it is beyond me how we come to this very moment in time - dad honoured his marriage even when it fell apart. He didn't want to give her "just enough" or the bare minimum. He can afford to pay her more than many and he decided to do just that. And people are finding fault in this? When we agree to this without any court intervention it's wrong? Come on. This is HC at its finest!
And to clarify, I did not say women who receive spousal are money hungry bitches. I said NOT EVERY woman is a money hungry bitch.
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