Originally posted by Mess
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At the end of the day this is what is happening.
I don't know how others on this group would feel about this suggestion but perhaps they will agree.
Go to the nearest police station, make a statement with a police officer, that your not making a complant, show them the text message, explain you are not trying to create conflict, and that you are completely stable and haven't been drinking, explain that you are going home to check on the children and that you need to be assertive to show that this sort of behaviour will not keep you from your children and that you are fully involved, Ask for the officers name and badge number and for him to create a police incident report. You then leave and go home, if things go wrong at home which I honestly don't think will happen, you have already protected yourself with police documentation about your state of mind before you went home. Plus lightly this police officer will likely stick around or inform other police officer before they actually get there that you were reasonable when you were with them.
Again this is completely out of the box thinking, but thats the type of person I am.
I did this once after my ex's father told me to get "f*&^%ing away from her car" I was putting my daughter glooves on her car as I forgot to give them to my ex in the restartant. I made a report showed the recording I had, and asked that no one be called, and that it simply was documented.
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