Ok so we had a full OCL assessment which went in my favour and scheduling times increase were recommended.
The problem - My x has reluctantly agreed, but wants it on a trial basis for 3 months at which point she wants another mediator to interview my daughter (which would be 3 different people now) to see if the new schedule is working for her.
The new scheduling is very similar to what she initially had, the only difference is it is now blocked time.
My problem is I believe this to be another delay tatic and getting my daughter involved again as well as it will make the whole OCL report basically invalid once a new person interviews my daughter. (I'm not overly worried that my daughter will take the scheduling negative - just that it's another 'round')
So I have to either allow the temporary scheduling or file a motion to get the OCL report and scheduling temporary until a settlement conference can be done. - which is essentially the same thing - but without another party being involved.
Her lawyer and the OCL have said that it might look bad on me that she has already agreed. I'm confused on what to do ...any help?
The problem - My x has reluctantly agreed, but wants it on a trial basis for 3 months at which point she wants another mediator to interview my daughter (which would be 3 different people now) to see if the new schedule is working for her.
The new scheduling is very similar to what she initially had, the only difference is it is now blocked time.
My problem is I believe this to be another delay tatic and getting my daughter involved again as well as it will make the whole OCL report basically invalid once a new person interviews my daughter. (I'm not overly worried that my daughter will take the scheduling negative - just that it's another 'round')
So I have to either allow the temporary scheduling or file a motion to get the OCL report and scheduling temporary until a settlement conference can be done. - which is essentially the same thing - but without another party being involved.
Her lawyer and the OCL have said that it might look bad on me that she has already agreed. I'm confused on what to do ...any help?
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