My 3yo is making increasingly frequent requests for me and my partner (and our friends) to visit her at my ex's place. We split before she was born, so she has no experience of us being together except at exchanges, where there is generally no communication. Ex has made accusations of abuse, so there is no way I'm going anywhere near her place.
Anyone have any suggestions on good explanations/reasons that make sense to a 3yo and are non-negative? Maybe we just need to reinforce the concept of mummy-time and daddy-time without further explanation?
(From what I can gather, it seems my ex's responses to these questions is to tell her that daddy cannot come because he is bad, or because daddy is a boy and we like only girls.)
Anyone have any suggestions on good explanations/reasons that make sense to a 3yo and are non-negative? Maybe we just need to reinforce the concept of mummy-time and daddy-time without further explanation?
(From what I can gather, it seems my ex's responses to these questions is to tell her that daddy cannot come because he is bad, or because daddy is a boy and we like only girls.)
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