Thanks Pharah,
We have kept every email, every text, and every payment to prove over and over again that we are trying to cooperate, put the children's needs first, and that we are willing to communicate. We have also started a video diary and intend to tape the kids melt downs to show the type of things they are being brainwashed with. Ex - "Mommy said if I wake up and your not there that she will come and get me." You can rest assured the child barely slept and was crying in anxiousness all night. Who wouldn't if you were 7 and thought daddy was going to disappear?
At every turn it gets crazier. The parent alienation is hurting the kids so much they don't know how to just be happy kids any more. We are only going for 1st case conference April 13 so I imagine there is a long road ahead. Our situation is similar. Zero cooperation. We offered everything that is reasonable but she wants my fiancee out of her and the kids life and will stop at nothing to make this happen. 3 years a status quo of us having the kids 3 to 4 weekends a month, access at Christmas and in the summer. Now she wants sole custody and insists that he doesn't have any legal right to see his children at Christmas and summer. The separation agreement is a piece of swiss cheese as far as I am concerned as it details nothing.
We are asking to remain joint, with parallel parenting structure. But now that she wants to upset the kids schooling and switch them a year apart to French Immersion. We wonder if this is our opening for custody to be granted to us. There is a distance between homes and if they are switching schools anyway, wouldn't it be better for them to move at the same time not a year being separated??
I read stories like yours here and I am given hope that when all evidence is presented and one person is behaving like a tyrant that judges do in fact see what is best for the kids. We are also requesting an OCL. It'll be interesting to see what comes of that.
Thanks for a light in the dark.
We have kept every email, every text, and every payment to prove over and over again that we are trying to cooperate, put the children's needs first, and that we are willing to communicate. We have also started a video diary and intend to tape the kids melt downs to show the type of things they are being brainwashed with. Ex - "Mommy said if I wake up and your not there that she will come and get me." You can rest assured the child barely slept and was crying in anxiousness all night. Who wouldn't if you were 7 and thought daddy was going to disappear?
At every turn it gets crazier. The parent alienation is hurting the kids so much they don't know how to just be happy kids any more. We are only going for 1st case conference April 13 so I imagine there is a long road ahead. Our situation is similar. Zero cooperation. We offered everything that is reasonable but she wants my fiancee out of her and the kids life and will stop at nothing to make this happen. 3 years a status quo of us having the kids 3 to 4 weekends a month, access at Christmas and in the summer. Now she wants sole custody and insists that he doesn't have any legal right to see his children at Christmas and summer. The separation agreement is a piece of swiss cheese as far as I am concerned as it details nothing.
We are asking to remain joint, with parallel parenting structure. But now that she wants to upset the kids schooling and switch them a year apart to French Immersion. We wonder if this is our opening for custody to be granted to us. There is a distance between homes and if they are switching schools anyway, wouldn't it be better for them to move at the same time not a year being separated??
I read stories like yours here and I am given hope that when all evidence is presented and one person is behaving like a tyrant that judges do in fact see what is best for the kids. We are also requesting an OCL. It'll be interesting to see what comes of that.
Thanks for a light in the dark.
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