My husband and I after 3 years of marriage and 6 yrs. total living together, are splitting up, and I cannot see any reconciliation possible. He was employed in high-tech, but left his job due to burnout/stress (and promptly went on 2 cross country tours!). Once his disability benefits ran out, I was the sole wage-earner, and was subjected to 3 years of mental and emotional abuse while he went through various courses of drugs prescribed by his psychiatrists, etc. ANYWAY....
He wanted to consolidate some bills, and we had to renegotiate the mortgage to accomplish this. As he was uninsurable, the bank would only grant me the mortgage, which because of the consolidation is of course larger than it was prior.
He has been trying to get a business going, and has had some successes, but money flows like water through his hands...(just one of the issues). Currently his business is in a down time, with no major contracts in sight until April1, and he has $45.00 in the bank.
Questions
#1 - Can he 'sue' me for spousal support if I leave? He had been making $90K+ in his previous job, and not much to show for it....
#2 - Are the RRSP's I currently have 'up for grabs' - they are the result of pension transfers from employers when I left... and are in LIRA's.
#3 - If I offer to cover the mortgage payments until April 1, will the courts look favorably on this?
Any input is appreciated....
He wanted to consolidate some bills, and we had to renegotiate the mortgage to accomplish this. As he was uninsurable, the bank would only grant me the mortgage, which because of the consolidation is of course larger than it was prior.
He has been trying to get a business going, and has had some successes, but money flows like water through his hands...(just one of the issues). Currently his business is in a down time, with no major contracts in sight until April1, and he has $45.00 in the bank.
Questions
#1 - Can he 'sue' me for spousal support if I leave? He had been making $90K+ in his previous job, and not much to show for it....
#2 - Are the RRSP's I currently have 'up for grabs' - they are the result of pension transfers from employers when I left... and are in LIRA's.
#3 - If I offer to cover the mortgage payments until April 1, will the courts look favorably on this?
Any input is appreciated....
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