So, a verbal agreement is in place (it's in writing but not signed since the ex always has an issue with something) that stated that she was going to stay in the home and take care of the mortgage and all related expenses. She is getting child support and spousal.
my friend he left the house and is now staying somewhere else, paying rent and all. She tried to get approved to buy him out and she cannot. He offered to let her buy him out just for the mortgage so he would get no equity but that she take on the LOC. she refused... he offered to take $5000 from the LOC and she took the rest.. her response.. tell me $10,000 and we will talk.. he told her that if she could not buy him out, they would need to sell sooner than later. she told him May to give the luxury to the kids to finish school (we keep telling her that the closing date can be something negotiated in the sell)... she's a bit melodramatic... so... now... she told him that she plans on moving out as soon as the for sale goes up.. expecting him to pay the mortgage (his half) and full chid support (of $1400)... he told her she was unreasonable.. that even if he would want to he cannot afford both... he's going to see a lawyer
Since the separation she has done so much.. he got 2 sofas from the house (she kept the other one) he got a TV , she kept the other one and the bedroom set which belonged to his mother.. she kept everything else... he told her that he did not need anything else for now so that he would leave it there for her and the kids but now she tells him that he won't get a thing... she changed the locks on the house without his permission... he asked her the other day to leave the door unlock because he may be late to pick the kids up so they could at least enter the house (she normally never locks the door only when he comes to pick the kids up) .. she said no.. the past summer when they were still sharing expenses she paid nothing... so he paid everything even her car payments.. she owes him over $1000...
anyways... anyone has any thoughts on this? you think that he would need to pay the mortgage AND child support even if that would mean going into the negative every 2 weeks cause he truly cannot afford it only because she's mad at him... her reason was fear of not finding a place for the children on time yet... it only took her less than a week to find a place in February ... she texted him saying so we agree to this cause I have found a place and they are waiting for me to sign...
ahhhhhhh the joys of divorce
my friend he left the house and is now staying somewhere else, paying rent and all. She tried to get approved to buy him out and she cannot. He offered to let her buy him out just for the mortgage so he would get no equity but that she take on the LOC. she refused... he offered to take $5000 from the LOC and she took the rest.. her response.. tell me $10,000 and we will talk.. he told her that if she could not buy him out, they would need to sell sooner than later. she told him May to give the luxury to the kids to finish school (we keep telling her that the closing date can be something negotiated in the sell)... she's a bit melodramatic... so... now... she told him that she plans on moving out as soon as the for sale goes up.. expecting him to pay the mortgage (his half) and full chid support (of $1400)... he told her she was unreasonable.. that even if he would want to he cannot afford both... he's going to see a lawyer
Since the separation she has done so much.. he got 2 sofas from the house (she kept the other one) he got a TV , she kept the other one and the bedroom set which belonged to his mother.. she kept everything else... he told her that he did not need anything else for now so that he would leave it there for her and the kids but now she tells him that he won't get a thing... she changed the locks on the house without his permission... he asked her the other day to leave the door unlock because he may be late to pick the kids up so they could at least enter the house (she normally never locks the door only when he comes to pick the kids up) .. she said no.. the past summer when they were still sharing expenses she paid nothing... so he paid everything even her car payments.. she owes him over $1000...
anyways... anyone has any thoughts on this? you think that he would need to pay the mortgage AND child support even if that would mean going into the negative every 2 weeks cause he truly cannot afford it only because she's mad at him... her reason was fear of not finding a place for the children on time yet... it only took her less than a week to find a place in February ... she texted him saying so we agree to this cause I have found a place and they are waiting for me to sign...
ahhhhhhh the joys of divorce
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