i have been reading here for a little while and am ot sure where i stand. i left my husband 4 months ago because he was very abusive and controlling. i had to leave quickly and moved as far away as i could for my saftey. 3 of the children choose to stay with there father and one child came with me. i setteled in with my new boyfriend and my daughter choose to return home. i was served court papers recently saying that my husband had gotten an emergency custody order for allo 4 children and that i could only have supervised visits. he was also asking for child support and spousal suport. he has made over 200000 for the past few years and i have always been the stay at home mom. do i have to pay him child support even though i dont work and wont he have to pay me spousal support even if he has the children? i would rather try to go back to school so i can get a good job. he is claiming his income has been reduced to 90000 dollars a year as he now has to look after the kids and cant work overtime is he allowed to do this or is this dileberate so he can avoid any payments to me. he has also asked for exclusiv possesion of home and unequal division of property because i am blocking the sale of second house because i think it is worth more. i have gotten a lawyer from legal aid but being so far away i can onlydeal with him by phone and he just seems to rush me. as far as working with him he still tries to abuse me even from this distance by phone calls and text. i think he has brainwashed the kids against me too. he has asked for the childrens lawyer to represent the children but i dont know if this is a good thing or not. i dont talk to my children as i feel the are being manipulated against me what do i do? any help i feel desperate
we were married for 9 years but lived together for almost 20 years off and on kids are 12 13 14 16
we were married for 9 years but lived together for almost 20 years off and on kids are 12 13 14 16
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