Hello,
New to the board here so hopefully I got the right forum.
My fiancé has two boys aged 12 and 10 with his ex-wife. The ex remarried shortly after the divorce was final and has a little girl with the soon to be 3rd ex. Late last year we heard thru the boys that she was having marital problems and had hooked up with someone in Edmonton. Five weeks ago she informed us of her decision to move out there for a "job". Needless to say she is moving in with the new boyfriend and the job is doubtful. She has not given us a forwarding address nor his full name, so we are completely in the dark with the situation the boys will find themselves in out there. Initially she pushed to take both boys with her, but decided my fiancé was right to want to keep the boys here to finish out the school year and to give her a chance to settle out there. She has no family/friends out there and we wanted to be sure it would work out there prior to uprooting the boys. Tuesday we get a call saying she's not leaving until Wednesday now, so we can pick the boys up then. That night my fiancé is talking to the oldest. An hour later she calls from her cell on the road telling him that she has the oldest with her but has left the youngest for us to pick up. Suffice it to say we have been very upset with this turn of events. She didn't give sufficient notice prior to her move and convinced the oldest to lie to his father. Police could do nothing, and according to a lawyer are chances aren't good if the boys want to be with her. This woman has been up on fraud charges, been sued by her mother and got a cut of the profits, dragged a fellow down the road with her vehicle, committed horse theft, forged signatures on legal documents, and the list goes on. It boggles the mind that she isn't in jail. We feel like we are at her mercy. She even wanted her child support cheques in order to agree for them to remain with us to finish off the school year.
Has anyone experienced anything like this? Is there anything we can do? This woman made half a dozen or more moves in the last 10 years just in our area. We are concerned that she will simply drop off the map. She also stated that she would pay for the boys flights to and from ON 4 times of the year. Based on her past history we'll be lucky if she pays for one flight out here. What can we do to make sure that they're safe out there and she's enrolled him in a school to finish off the year and beyond?
New to the board here so hopefully I got the right forum.
My fiancé has two boys aged 12 and 10 with his ex-wife. The ex remarried shortly after the divorce was final and has a little girl with the soon to be 3rd ex. Late last year we heard thru the boys that she was having marital problems and had hooked up with someone in Edmonton. Five weeks ago she informed us of her decision to move out there for a "job". Needless to say she is moving in with the new boyfriend and the job is doubtful. She has not given us a forwarding address nor his full name, so we are completely in the dark with the situation the boys will find themselves in out there. Initially she pushed to take both boys with her, but decided my fiancé was right to want to keep the boys here to finish out the school year and to give her a chance to settle out there. She has no family/friends out there and we wanted to be sure it would work out there prior to uprooting the boys. Tuesday we get a call saying she's not leaving until Wednesday now, so we can pick the boys up then. That night my fiancé is talking to the oldest. An hour later she calls from her cell on the road telling him that she has the oldest with her but has left the youngest for us to pick up. Suffice it to say we have been very upset with this turn of events. She didn't give sufficient notice prior to her move and convinced the oldest to lie to his father. Police could do nothing, and according to a lawyer are chances aren't good if the boys want to be with her. This woman has been up on fraud charges, been sued by her mother and got a cut of the profits, dragged a fellow down the road with her vehicle, committed horse theft, forged signatures on legal documents, and the list goes on. It boggles the mind that she isn't in jail. We feel like we are at her mercy. She even wanted her child support cheques in order to agree for them to remain with us to finish off the school year.
Has anyone experienced anything like this? Is there anything we can do? This woman made half a dozen or more moves in the last 10 years just in our area. We are concerned that she will simply drop off the map. She also stated that she would pay for the boys flights to and from ON 4 times of the year. Based on her past history we'll be lucky if she pays for one flight out here. What can we do to make sure that they're safe out there and she's enrolled him in a school to finish off the year and beyond?
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