Please help me - less than 2 months ago husband sends a text that he is done. No prior counseling or indication (guess, most cases happen like this?!). Since, all has been spiraling out of control. about 3 weeks after announcement I received a note from mediator that he wants to mediate without discussing with me. I asked for time to even comprehend what is going on, but he keeps on forcing that an agreement needs to be signed right away so that he can leave the home. I proposed counter mediator, but he never responded whether he agrees (so no mediation took place). Instead I received a letter from his lawyer that as the issues are straightforward it would be more cost effective to proceed with separation agreement (small kids and property are involved).
There is a massive financial form attached to the letter that I don't understand and I have a week to respond otherwise they will proceed in court for full indemnity (whatever that means).
WHAT DO I DO?? Can I write back and ask form more time? I don't even have a lawyer (I spoke to a couple but they only seem to talk during a meeting to get more money from me - do you know a good honest lawyer?), I continue to work full time and take care of the kids (he's checked out, even through sleeps in the home most days). Is it me or is it normal that all of this is moving so fast? 2 months ago I believed I was happily married.
There is a massive financial form attached to the letter that I don't understand and I have a week to respond otherwise they will proceed in court for full indemnity (whatever that means).
WHAT DO I DO?? Can I write back and ask form more time? I don't even have a lawyer (I spoke to a couple but they only seem to talk during a meeting to get more money from me - do you know a good honest lawyer?), I continue to work full time and take care of the kids (he's checked out, even through sleeps in the home most days). Is it me or is it normal that all of this is moving so fast? 2 months ago I believed I was happily married.
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