Had the "bomb" dropped on my 3 weeks ago . Never saw it coming.
So far 3 weeks of pure hell with a million questions and no answers.
Have had 1 marriage counselling session but now have to wait 2 weeks for the next one.
What exactly does " I need my space " mean ?
From what I can tell right now it means,I have to keep paying the bills, go to work and look after the kids. It also seems to mean I have to sleep somewhere else and stop trying to talk to my wife .
I tried to sleep at relatives but that only lasted a few nights. I just couldn't stay away from my kids.
Why does she have to lie about everything ? (ie: where she goes till midnight every night).
Am I being played for a fool for a while until the weather gets better and she is secure in her finances ?
Why has she stopped looking after the house ?
Why has she confided in our friends but rips my head off if I ask them about anything ?
Why did she sugar coat it to her parents and tell them we're just having a small problem when she tells close friends that its over.
Why did she stop wearing her wedding rings ?
Why does this have to hurt so much ?
I am in limbo right now, not knowing if I need to try to get on with my life or keep grasping at the slight chance that this is a bad dream and we will manage to put this all back together.
So far 3 weeks of pure hell with a million questions and no answers.
Have had 1 marriage counselling session but now have to wait 2 weeks for the next one.
What exactly does " I need my space " mean ?
From what I can tell right now it means,I have to keep paying the bills, go to work and look after the kids. It also seems to mean I have to sleep somewhere else and stop trying to talk to my wife .
I tried to sleep at relatives but that only lasted a few nights. I just couldn't stay away from my kids.
Why does she have to lie about everything ? (ie: where she goes till midnight every night).
Am I being played for a fool for a while until the weather gets better and she is secure in her finances ?
Why has she stopped looking after the house ?
Why has she confided in our friends but rips my head off if I ask them about anything ?
Why did she sugar coat it to her parents and tell them we're just having a small problem when she tells close friends that its over.
Why did she stop wearing her wedding rings ?
Why does this have to hurt so much ?
I am in limbo right now, not knowing if I need to try to get on with my life or keep grasping at the slight chance that this is a bad dream and we will manage to put this all back together.
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