Hello all:
It’s been a while since I’ve last posted. Have a question as CRA has not been answering my calls....daily calls (2 plus hour hold times) and my lawyer has shut down....
I currently pay Child support (min wage full time imputed to ex) and Spousal support (total support is more than 50% my gross); we have 50/50. Legalized slavery in Canada is great for the economy! But not so much for the best interest of the child (human shield tactics)...
With that said.....
My ex left the country last year for 3 weeks. 3 weeks turned into 9 months. During this time I had full time with the kids. I continued to pay my slavery fee (spousal support) however, I discontinued Child support. Her and her lawyer did not argue this. Our original agreement states 2 payments a month for Child support.
Come tax time... I claimed my Slavery payment (spousal support never missed a payment ever) and indicated the Child Support I had paid during 2019 ( approx 3 months). Other than the 9 months... I’ve never missed a payment.
CRA readjusted my income tax refund to offset the “lack of Child Support” I had paid. Keep in mind I did send a lawyer letter in 2019 indicating that my ex was no longer in country and I had the kids full time. CRA has ignored this letter. My ex returned in late 2019 and we are back to 50/50.
My questions (if anyone can answer) How can I explain to CRA that I am NOT a deadbeat father and that I had the children full time during 2019 for 9 months? Or does CRA really ignore this part? Would this require my lawyers input? Does this require my ex to come forth willingly to CRA (good luck with that; deadbeat mothers outnumber deadbeat dads by 4 to 1 and the industry supports this)....
I’ve thought about letting it go to avoid further drama (yes I’m a god and my ex is a deadbeat)... but will CRA continue to punish me ( for being a slave trying to better the life of his kids) next year if they don’t see me paying the “missing child support”?
Thanks
Any input is appreciated....
It’s been a while since I’ve last posted. Have a question as CRA has not been answering my calls....daily calls (2 plus hour hold times) and my lawyer has shut down....
I currently pay Child support (min wage full time imputed to ex) and Spousal support (total support is more than 50% my gross); we have 50/50. Legalized slavery in Canada is great for the economy! But not so much for the best interest of the child (human shield tactics)...
With that said.....
My ex left the country last year for 3 weeks. 3 weeks turned into 9 months. During this time I had full time with the kids. I continued to pay my slavery fee (spousal support) however, I discontinued Child support. Her and her lawyer did not argue this. Our original agreement states 2 payments a month for Child support.
Come tax time... I claimed my Slavery payment (spousal support never missed a payment ever) and indicated the Child Support I had paid during 2019 ( approx 3 months). Other than the 9 months... I’ve never missed a payment.
CRA readjusted my income tax refund to offset the “lack of Child Support” I had paid. Keep in mind I did send a lawyer letter in 2019 indicating that my ex was no longer in country and I had the kids full time. CRA has ignored this letter. My ex returned in late 2019 and we are back to 50/50.
My questions (if anyone can answer) How can I explain to CRA that I am NOT a deadbeat father and that I had the children full time during 2019 for 9 months? Or does CRA really ignore this part? Would this require my lawyers input? Does this require my ex to come forth willingly to CRA (good luck with that; deadbeat mothers outnumber deadbeat dads by 4 to 1 and the industry supports this)....
I’ve thought about letting it go to avoid further drama (yes I’m a god and my ex is a deadbeat)... but will CRA continue to punish me ( for being a slave trying to better the life of his kids) next year if they don’t see me paying the “missing child support”?
Thanks
Any input is appreciated....
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