Hello. Brand spanking new here. I need some help. I love my daughter more than anything else in this world. As soon as I get home she runs into my arms and I played with her for hours. She was very much a daddy's girl. I haven't seen or heard from her since Feb. 15th/14.
The day of we went sledding all day (pics), rolled around tickling each other. Big hugs and kisses by me ex before I went to work. I called around 7:00pm to say goodnight to kidlet(Daughter). No answer. I continued to call and became worried, raced home and found my ex and her gone with most the stuff. I called the police. They were expecting it and told me to get a lawyer. I was flabbergasted. Got a lawyer. Long story short there were massive, grusome false allegations of domestic violence. She contacted Partner Assault, got herself in a shelter (2 bedroom townhouse now) and is in hiding. My lawyer tracked down her lawyer and filed an application for custody/access. "Sole Custody". I know this is irrational but she's lost it. I don't know what she's capable of now. She responded with domestic violence, drinking, heavy marijuana use, etc. All completely false and baring no truth. She said I passed out later in the evening from the combination of alcohol and marijuana giving her and kidlet"quiet time". Im a magician and have chat logs in a magi hat room every night until at least 10:00PM. kidlet's bedtime was 7:00pm. I have urine tests revealing no marijuana/alcohol in my system. I have printed out gym attendance records showing I took care of my body, not abusing it. I can't get over she would do this.
Unfortuneatly my lawyer charged in excess of $4000,00 for one months work and failed to submit my financial statement and response among other things. I had to let him go. Self-repping now. The deadline passed and now the ex's lawyer wont give consent or respond to any attempts for simple access. Do I file a motion for late filing before my CC on May 22nd? Ive documenting all the attempts for access. The Ex made one attempt, offering that my grandparents drive from another city to do the exchange and supervision for one hour. They do not drive. The ex knew this. She set up an impossible situation. All my texts to ex since abduction have been civil attempts to communicate for kidlet's sake. (Do you need money?, Do you need groceries?, Can we do this nicely for kidlet's s sake? Can I just hear her voice? I just want to have a mature, adult conversation for kidlet's s sake...etc. All ignored. I miss my daughter more than anything an Im not sure how long I can keep this up.
My mother and I began reorganizing furniture and pictures after ex left and found damage, holes, etc. Great! Looks like she planted this and probably took pics for her case.
I have videos of bedtime routine where Im teaching kidlet to read (I taught her how to read a childrens book at 2 years old). I have videos of us dancing, singing and playing at the park. Can I submit videos as evidence? I hope so. Speaks much louder than words.
Will I get some kind of order to get access to kidlet at my first CC on May 22nd? I will not have seen her for 3 months at that point. Im her hero. She was ripped away from everything she knew. The ex is changing status quo by force. What do I need to do for access? Please. To my knowledge Im the applicant to I have an upperhand. But she's painted herself as quite the victim here.
Motives? We were in the midst of discussing kidlet going to school and having dual income (her getting a job). She's always detested the thought of working. She was just ignoring the topic lately. Now I see why. She wants money from all ends with no work. She also wants to relocate to another city with her family.
Please tell me how I can see my daughter. Im flexible. I can go in to the CC with minute of settlement. I want to cooperate. I want to settle ASAP. I don't want kidlet going through this.
The day of we went sledding all day (pics), rolled around tickling each other. Big hugs and kisses by me ex before I went to work. I called around 7:00pm to say goodnight to kidlet(Daughter). No answer. I continued to call and became worried, raced home and found my ex and her gone with most the stuff. I called the police. They were expecting it and told me to get a lawyer. I was flabbergasted. Got a lawyer. Long story short there were massive, grusome false allegations of domestic violence. She contacted Partner Assault, got herself in a shelter (2 bedroom townhouse now) and is in hiding. My lawyer tracked down her lawyer and filed an application for custody/access. "Sole Custody". I know this is irrational but she's lost it. I don't know what she's capable of now. She responded with domestic violence, drinking, heavy marijuana use, etc. All completely false and baring no truth. She said I passed out later in the evening from the combination of alcohol and marijuana giving her and kidlet"quiet time". Im a magician and have chat logs in a magi hat room every night until at least 10:00PM. kidlet's bedtime was 7:00pm. I have urine tests revealing no marijuana/alcohol in my system. I have printed out gym attendance records showing I took care of my body, not abusing it. I can't get over she would do this.
Unfortuneatly my lawyer charged in excess of $4000,00 for one months work and failed to submit my financial statement and response among other things. I had to let him go. Self-repping now. The deadline passed and now the ex's lawyer wont give consent or respond to any attempts for simple access. Do I file a motion for late filing before my CC on May 22nd? Ive documenting all the attempts for access. The Ex made one attempt, offering that my grandparents drive from another city to do the exchange and supervision for one hour. They do not drive. The ex knew this. She set up an impossible situation. All my texts to ex since abduction have been civil attempts to communicate for kidlet's sake. (Do you need money?, Do you need groceries?, Can we do this nicely for kidlet's s sake? Can I just hear her voice? I just want to have a mature, adult conversation for kidlet's s sake...etc. All ignored. I miss my daughter more than anything an Im not sure how long I can keep this up.
My mother and I began reorganizing furniture and pictures after ex left and found damage, holes, etc. Great! Looks like she planted this and probably took pics for her case.
I have videos of bedtime routine where Im teaching kidlet to read (I taught her how to read a childrens book at 2 years old). I have videos of us dancing, singing and playing at the park. Can I submit videos as evidence? I hope so. Speaks much louder than words.
Will I get some kind of order to get access to kidlet at my first CC on May 22nd? I will not have seen her for 3 months at that point. Im her hero. She was ripped away from everything she knew. The ex is changing status quo by force. What do I need to do for access? Please. To my knowledge Im the applicant to I have an upperhand. But she's painted herself as quite the victim here.
Motives? We were in the midst of discussing kidlet going to school and having dual income (her getting a job). She's always detested the thought of working. She was just ignoring the topic lately. Now I see why. She wants money from all ends with no work. She also wants to relocate to another city with her family.
Please tell me how I can see my daughter. Im flexible. I can go in to the CC with minute of settlement. I want to cooperate. I want to settle ASAP. I don't want kidlet going through this.
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