I have to ask this: Can my ex withhold the divorce. She's been doing a great job of prolonging it for whatever reason. We settled property, pension, CS & SS. there's nothing to fight over and I am on my 2nd lawyer. All the issues mentioned were done before we got into the lawyers having the original separation agreement notorized. My new lawyer is very good. He told me originally 5-7 hrs tops to finalize. I'm now into him at about 11-13hrs and still waiting. He's putting the final touches on the final agreement concerning incomes because she is going to make more this year. She deliberately took 8-10 weeks off last year to bring her income down. My income has dropped off 20K because of less overtime and I'm moving off midnights cutting my income yearly of 10% shift premium. 15 years is enough. Back to days. She has been playing games with her demands. I have agreed to everything just to get rid of her but she always finds something else. She has even asked for my tax break for the money I contribute to my sons education. My lawyer said she's extremely greedy and selfish. I just said give it to her and get this over with. When she reads the revisions concerning the yearly incomes to be changed she will refuse. My lawyer wants his day in court with her. Thats the way i ser it. We have a material change clause written so it shouldn't be an issue. She has
a decent income. Really! How long can this drag out for god sakes. I hate this ball & chain financial nightmare. All I want is some kind of fairness and be rid of her for good.
a decent income. Really! How long can this drag out for god sakes. I hate this ball & chain financial nightmare. All I want is some kind of fairness and be rid of her for good.
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