Hi everyone,
I work night shifts from 11pm to 7 am and the commute is one hour each way. I was told by my company that maybe I will move to afternoon shift from 3pm to 11pm to help with parenting time(I have full custody for now). I think afternoon shift is worst than night shift because I'm not able to spend time with my son at all. My son who is 11 is going to school from 830am to 3pm. School is very close to ours house only 3 minutes away.
The issue is I couldn't find a nanny or someone to be with my son during the night from 10pm to 8am...I talked to couple of nannies and they asked me to bring my son to their house for sleeping...my son doesn't want...and my soon ex-wife doesn't want to co-operate too...
I was advised to rent one room for free to a student just to have an adult during the night but I don't know this will be a good idea..
I can't get day shift from my company and I make good money with good benefits and pension. I can find a lower paying job in my town working day shift but I want to keep the house and pay half of its value to my wife (mortgage is only 80K left)...so, I still need my actual job...
What should I do ?...thanks for your answers...
I work night shifts from 11pm to 7 am and the commute is one hour each way. I was told by my company that maybe I will move to afternoon shift from 3pm to 11pm to help with parenting time(I have full custody for now). I think afternoon shift is worst than night shift because I'm not able to spend time with my son at all. My son who is 11 is going to school from 830am to 3pm. School is very close to ours house only 3 minutes away.
The issue is I couldn't find a nanny or someone to be with my son during the night from 10pm to 8am...I talked to couple of nannies and they asked me to bring my son to their house for sleeping...my son doesn't want...and my soon ex-wife doesn't want to co-operate too...
I was advised to rent one room for free to a student just to have an adult during the night but I don't know this will be a good idea..
I can't get day shift from my company and I make good money with good benefits and pension. I can find a lower paying job in my town working day shift but I want to keep the house and pay half of its value to my wife (mortgage is only 80K left)...so, I still need my actual job...
What should I do ?...thanks for your answers...
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