Bluster and storming is a common tactic by those who know they don't have substantive grounds for what they want. Throwing around legal terms is another. My ex does both.
I suggest writing back to your ex (not his wife - she needs to be kept out of the loop), saying that you have received his wife's email and you do not agree with her proposed changes to child support and S7. He is responsible for upholding his commitments under the order; if he seeks to change the order, there are procedures available to him through the courts. That's the end of your communication. Then, as other posters suggested, file your order with FRO.
With respect to the daycare thing, all he's really entitled to are the receipts, but I can't see how it could hurt to provide as much info as possible about the provider. With respect to the clothes, as Rioe suggested, packing a bag with a couple of extra outfits for the kids, to be left at his place, seems reasonable, as that's what the CS is meant to be for.
I suggest writing back to your ex (not his wife - she needs to be kept out of the loop), saying that you have received his wife's email and you do not agree with her proposed changes to child support and S7. He is responsible for upholding his commitments under the order; if he seeks to change the order, there are procedures available to him through the courts. That's the end of your communication. Then, as other posters suggested, file your order with FRO.
With respect to the daycare thing, all he's really entitled to are the receipts, but I can't see how it could hurt to provide as much info as possible about the provider. With respect to the clothes, as Rioe suggested, packing a bag with a couple of extra outfits for the kids, to be left at his place, seems reasonable, as that's what the CS is meant to be for.
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