Logicalvelocity was one of the first members of this forum and an incredible person. He really went out of the way to help everyone here. He was extremely informed about all aspects of family law, and would probably be able to put many lawyers to shame with all he knew.
He loved his children dearly and would do pretty much anything he could for them.
My heart goes out to John's children. Today's society is a very tough place to grow up without either parent in their life.
It is so sad to live in a country with a medical system that could help people in need if it was given the opportunity to be involved and evaluate what is *really* going on in Family Law courts.
It is pitiful and despicable: what this "system" does to so many people. It breaks them. Wears them down to nothing. Hard to move past it. My situation was bad (and complicated by other legal matters as well) but not as bad as what others have gone through. I often wonder how people move on and past this garbage. IE: how does one start a new relationship w/anyone? Seems impossible to me. Maybe a lot of time has to pass. I really don't know but what I do know is; I need/want another relationship like I want an all-day root canal. This system, for many is a killing machine. At the very least, a torture chamber
You have been a lighthouse and pole star as I was churning in the treachorous waters of family court the past 6 years. Your advice, sage words and guidance many times were a blessing in my most desperate hours.
This God Damned family court system is a killing machine and in your death you have strenghted my resolve to see it abolished in my lifetime.
A visit from Dad once a year is better then the path he chose for his kids.
I sympathize, as Family Law sucks. But in doing this he fulfilled the very condition he was fighting against. To be a meaningful part of their lives growing up.
Rip John and lets pray for his children who are the ones that suffer. so sad and yet nothing gets done. I am sadden as my situation has brought me to my knees. we have to be strong someday this will all change.
A visit from Dad once a year is better then the path he chose for his kids.
I sympathize, as Family Law sucks. But in doing this he fulfilled the very condition he was fighting against. To be a meaningful part of their lives growing up.
Shameful.
Words spoken by someone who will never truly understand.
I just read this.Its such a loss to this forum,his children and to himself ofcourse.May his soul rest in peace.
In my first litigation he guided me through every turn and gave me the courage to be strong.He knew so much about the family law.
I am really sad and upset.As per as I know he had a son (shared custody) and a little girl for whom he was fighting and were often getting access.I wonder what and why went wrong.
You shouldn't have taken your own life LV.You were the voice of teh forum
Hi I'm new to this forum. Reading this just floored me. I never know LV but understand where he was. I would implore anyone here who hears anyone talking like they have lost all hope to find someone to talk to. There is always hope. Life by it's definition is worth living.
I have battled mental illness for a long time and it was leaving my marriage that helped me finally move on and get healthy, but there were some very dark times.
For those who don't want to put themselves out there in front of another human being there is:
The more people talk about mental illness the more people will take the steps to get the help they need.
If anyone needs a confidential person to talk to I'm just a PM away. People who have lost hope need help. We're all going through the same thing we should help each other.
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