Have read the recent rulings and seen the threads. This is a new wrinkle and looking for insight.
Joint custody. Residency normally is 5/14 nights for me.
Since school out temporary 7/14 alternating weeks.
I am working at home.
My wife was working until 2 weeks ago in health care but took a leave since we have kids 7/14 plus concerns about virus. Non-essential job.
We live rural and are isolating voluntarily. No-one allowed in. We are not visiting anyone. That includes older step kids and all family and friends.
Very careful about shopping etc. and sanitation. No symptoms in us or anyone we have been in contact with and over 2 weeks has passed.
Co-parent (ex wife) has raised issues about safety but dropped all of that when I sent over the recent ruling. There were some unfounded and untrue accusations and insults thrown at us.
Ex is in a relationship with someone and they have separate homes. He has an older child that is not currently with him.
Kids told me recently that ex is visiting her boyfriend and vice versa. Also the kids have been to his home after Covid warnings issued and he has been to their mother's home. Covid is in the community (confirmed cases).
So here is the shoe on the other foot.
We are now concerned that our isolation has been compromised given the boyfriend and ex do not live as a family unit and are moving back and forth with and without the kids. And are concerned that when the kids go back to her home this will continue raising risk for the kids first and foremost adn then for us again after the weeks they spend there.
We are raised these concerns now very respectfully and got slapped.
Now we are thinking of proposing the following options.
Need some feedback please.
1. Kids stay with us until pandemic clears.
2. Kids stay with her until pandemic clears and they agree not to take kids to boyfriend's house and to limit (preferably end) his visits or he moves in to form a single family unit (will never happen)
3. They agree to end any visits between their homes and we keep the 7/14 schedule as is.
More fun and games.
Joint custody. Residency normally is 5/14 nights for me.
Since school out temporary 7/14 alternating weeks.
I am working at home.
My wife was working until 2 weeks ago in health care but took a leave since we have kids 7/14 plus concerns about virus. Non-essential job.
We live rural and are isolating voluntarily. No-one allowed in. We are not visiting anyone. That includes older step kids and all family and friends.
Very careful about shopping etc. and sanitation. No symptoms in us or anyone we have been in contact with and over 2 weeks has passed.
Co-parent (ex wife) has raised issues about safety but dropped all of that when I sent over the recent ruling. There were some unfounded and untrue accusations and insults thrown at us.
Ex is in a relationship with someone and they have separate homes. He has an older child that is not currently with him.
Kids told me recently that ex is visiting her boyfriend and vice versa. Also the kids have been to his home after Covid warnings issued and he has been to their mother's home. Covid is in the community (confirmed cases).
So here is the shoe on the other foot.
We are now concerned that our isolation has been compromised given the boyfriend and ex do not live as a family unit and are moving back and forth with and without the kids. And are concerned that when the kids go back to her home this will continue raising risk for the kids first and foremost adn then for us again after the weeks they spend there.
We are raised these concerns now very respectfully and got slapped.
Now we are thinking of proposing the following options.
Need some feedback please.
1. Kids stay with us until pandemic clears.
2. Kids stay with her until pandemic clears and they agree not to take kids to boyfriend's house and to limit (preferably end) his visits or he moves in to form a single family unit (will never happen)
3. They agree to end any visits between their homes and we keep the 7/14 schedule as is.
More fun and games.
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