My ex wants to take the eldest of our 4 children on a 2 week vacation to England. He has already mentioned this trip to the 2 eldest, saying they can go if Mommy will allow it, and stating the 2 youngest are too little to take the trip even though they have been on a number of long haul flights. He is an academic and will have at least 4 or 5 weeks off work time. Other than the 2 week trip, he wants to see the children for a total of one additional week during the school summer vacation, although he wants those 7 days split up and not in a single block. He states that this implies 3 weeks of time for him and 5 weeks of summer vacation with me, although I will actually have children with me for 7 weeks of the summer vacation, as the 2 youngest will be staying with me if he takes the 2 eldest to England.
The final separation agreement has not yet been completed ( we currently have an interim agreement) and the actual divorce can not happen until June of 2010. He has strong ties to England, being British by birth and has a girlfriend living in Germany. All 4 children were born in England, but have Canadian citizenship through me. Currently we are all living in Canada.
I honestly feel that if he can not take all 4 children to England, then he should really be planning a vacation which can accomodate all 4 children at the same time...has any one any advice to offer on this matter?
The final separation agreement has not yet been completed ( we currently have an interim agreement) and the actual divorce can not happen until June of 2010. He has strong ties to England, being British by birth and has a girlfriend living in Germany. All 4 children were born in England, but have Canadian citizenship through me. Currently we are all living in Canada.
I honestly feel that if he can not take all 4 children to England, then he should really be planning a vacation which can accomodate all 4 children at the same time...has any one any advice to offer on this matter?
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