Married 10 years, 2 young kids. In a loveless marriage with lots of conflict. We should never have gotten married in the first place, but here we are.
I've contemplated divorce for many years of my marriage, but only recently have I actually consulted with a family lawyer (without my husband's knowledge) as well as talked to some separation counselors.
I KNOW I should divorce but why the heck am I so scared to actually go through with it? Some days I feel like I can deal with the loveless marriage for the sake of the children, and other days I feel like I can't go on, and any other life is better than this life.
The amount of emotional turmoil I'm feeling is consuming me.
The 'uknowns' are consuming me. I'm thinking the worst will come...
I'm a professional woman in my 40's with a decent professional job and salary.
How long did you contemplate your divorce and what made you actually go through with it?
I've contemplated divorce for many years of my marriage, but only recently have I actually consulted with a family lawyer (without my husband's knowledge) as well as talked to some separation counselors.
I KNOW I should divorce but why the heck am I so scared to actually go through with it? Some days I feel like I can deal with the loveless marriage for the sake of the children, and other days I feel like I can't go on, and any other life is better than this life.
The amount of emotional turmoil I'm feeling is consuming me.
The 'uknowns' are consuming me. I'm thinking the worst will come...
I'm a professional woman in my 40's with a decent professional job and salary.
How long did you contemplate your divorce and what made you actually go through with it?
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