Until motion to change was filed, disclosure from payer was not given. I asked for it, but it didn't get sent until change motion.
Now after receiving income proof, it is obvious to see I did not get disclosure based on his income almost doubling for the two years NOA was not provided.
Now I am being told I have been over paid in child and spousal support, so that he can plead arrears are to be wiped out based on over payment. I am supporting myself, so based on what I have, it doesn't seem right.
I feel like Im just being "bullied" into believing that perhaps his lawyer is right. Legal stuff has a way of doing that to me, being vulnerable and naive in this area.
I asked for arrears in child support to be paid, and a new order for the new table about of support be granted. I did not ask for spousal support to be reviewed. If that does not get ordered, I am still wanting the correct amount and arrears paid for child support..we are approximately 12 thousand dollars in arrears..just in child support.
I have entered into an apprentice program and will be attending school first of the year when the course starts. I have been given paid hours for on the job training. Hope to be complete by end of summer 2015. I am trying to better myself, but struggling as he does not ever pay support on time. I feel it is on purpose. I do rely on my support. I don't want to have to, hence my schooling. Currently, due to lack of payment, and the fact that support is not being sent into fro consistently, I risk having to pack in my apprenticeship, just to make sure I can pay my mortgage.
I need advise as to how to plead this case at the next hearing. Representing self against a very large legal firm my ex as hired. Help!
Now after receiving income proof, it is obvious to see I did not get disclosure based on his income almost doubling for the two years NOA was not provided.
Now I am being told I have been over paid in child and spousal support, so that he can plead arrears are to be wiped out based on over payment. I am supporting myself, so based on what I have, it doesn't seem right.
I feel like Im just being "bullied" into believing that perhaps his lawyer is right. Legal stuff has a way of doing that to me, being vulnerable and naive in this area.
I asked for arrears in child support to be paid, and a new order for the new table about of support be granted. I did not ask for spousal support to be reviewed. If that does not get ordered, I am still wanting the correct amount and arrears paid for child support..we are approximately 12 thousand dollars in arrears..just in child support.
I have entered into an apprentice program and will be attending school first of the year when the course starts. I have been given paid hours for on the job training. Hope to be complete by end of summer 2015. I am trying to better myself, but struggling as he does not ever pay support on time. I feel it is on purpose. I do rely on my support. I don't want to have to, hence my schooling. Currently, due to lack of payment, and the fact that support is not being sent into fro consistently, I risk having to pack in my apprenticeship, just to make sure I can pay my mortgage.
I need advise as to how to plead this case at the next hearing. Representing self against a very large legal firm my ex as hired. Help!
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