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Old 03-21-2016, 09:47 PM
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I don't know how good it is, it's certainly a cruel reality, it's hurting everyone who goes to lawyers and to courts, who are not able to find a middle way peacefully for the sake of the kids.
It's $100 +tax per transfer, money that normally should go to child's RESP or to take them to Disneyland in vacation. Some centres may charge different amounts.

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Are you f**king kidding me? Wow - that's expensive. This should be a wake-up call to anyone considering this option and one would think that cost would be a valid reason for a justice to NOT consider this a viable option.
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That cost doesn't sound right.

Here is the service in the Niagara Region.

$40 a MONTH and fee assistance is available.

https://niagara.cioc.ca/record/NIA5781
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Old 03-22-2016, 01:42 AM
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And as a interesting aside, Early Childhood Educators are being hired by the access centres due to their extensive knowledge of child development, behaviour management techniques and parenting support.

The attorney general started hiring them a few years ago.
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Old 03-22-2016, 07:04 AM
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That cost doesn't sound right.

Here is the service in the Niagara Region.

$40 a MONTH and fee assistance is available.

https://niagara.cioc.ca/record/NIA5781
They're the only service in my area:
http://www.braydensupervision.com


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The cost is only one variable. The waiting lists add to the delay facilitating false status quo.

The problem is that these services are being misused for custody/Litigation battles.

It should be reserved for parents who lack the self regulation/communication skills and emotional regulation and/or who have a history of violence (physical/verbal)... or even addiction. Right now parent A says parent B is no good ...provides no evidence supporting claims and says that's the only way they can see their child. It's now a standard step on all cases....ridiculous.
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Private service... That is why they are so expensive.
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It's been awhile, but I have a small update. My ex's lawyer got back to me and they are in agreement to change the times on the interim order. The problem is that we tried doing this during the previous motion in early March and the judge refused to make any changes until the OCL report is ready.

I consulted with a new lawyer last week who just happened to be in the court room during that motion, and he confirmed that filing another motion before the OCL disclosure would likely have no result. This temporary judge is apparently a bit of an idiot, and has been a headache for many of the local lawyers.

I've been self representing in the meantime. The OCL disclosure meeting is at the end of this month. Once I have the report in hand (which I am 99% certain will be in my favor) I'll schedule a settlement conference as soon as possible to get this straightened out. Will post back in a few weeks.
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It's been awhile, but I have a small update. My ex's lawyer got back to me and they are in agreement to change the times on the interim order. The problem is that we tried doing this during the previous motion in early March and the judge refused to make any changes until the OCL report is ready.

I consulted with a new lawyer last week who just happened to be in the court room during that motion, and he confirmed that filing another motion before the OCL disclosure would likely have no result. This temporary judge is apparently a bit of an idiot, and has been a headache for many of the local lawyers.

I've been self representing in the meantime. The OCL disclosure meeting is at the end of this month. Once I have the report in hand (which I am 99% certain will be in my favor) I'll schedule a settlement conference as soon as possible to get this straightened out. Will post back in a few weeks.
Well don't be that sure with OCL report, I thought the same and they recommended sole custody to mother, expect for the worst...good luck

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Well don't be that sure with OCL report, I thought the same and they recommended sole custody to mother, expect for the worst...good luck

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I didn't mean to imply 'favorable' in terms of the custody arrangement, but rather to bury all of this nonsense with the false allegations once and for all. My main priority is to get regular access restored again. This is family court we're talking about after all. A father getting sole custody is about as rare as a pet unicorn.
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Old 04-06-2016, 08:52 PM
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How long took for OCL to wrap up a report? In our case took about 5 months

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