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Hey everyone,
Just wanted to share some news....
Our Matrimonial Home is Conditionally Sold, 2 weeks 2 days on the market....they have till 28 July to meet all conditions, and they want it for Sept 30....guess that means I'm gonna have to start packing
Then, my STBX finally signed the SA, he's only had it since June 10th....again however he had issue with paying me an equalization cs payment of $200/month and that's it. I did not ask for SS and I did not go after his pension, he worked hard for it and earned it, and I have my own, as a Gov Employee mine will probably be better than his in the long run anyway.
Things are moving so fast my head is kinda spinning, I feel like I am just waiting for the other shoe to drop! I have read so many stories on this forum about the hell that most people have had to go through that I kinda feel like it's to good to be true.
I know that I've made the right decision for me and my kids, and now I'm getting ready to start the next chapter in my life......when we finally told the kids, my oldest asked if it was like friends of his and I told him yes, 1 week with mom, 1 week with dad, his response "Cool, more presents at Christmas time cause there will be two houses". My youngest was concerned about pets, told him mom was taking the two cats to her place so he thinks we need to get another for dads house....dad said no, told him he could pet the fish when they were at his house, my smart 5 year old of course did not fall for this telling dad you can't pet fish!
So far the STBX and I have been getting along just fine, I hope it stays that way for the sake of my children and co-parenting.
Angie
Just wanted to share some news....
Our Matrimonial Home is Conditionally Sold, 2 weeks 2 days on the market....they have till 28 July to meet all conditions, and they want it for Sept 30....guess that means I'm gonna have to start packing
Then, my STBX finally signed the SA, he's only had it since June 10th....again however he had issue with paying me an equalization cs payment of $200/month and that's it. I did not ask for SS and I did not go after his pension, he worked hard for it and earned it, and I have my own, as a Gov Employee mine will probably be better than his in the long run anyway.
Things are moving so fast my head is kinda spinning, I feel like I am just waiting for the other shoe to drop! I have read so many stories on this forum about the hell that most people have had to go through that I kinda feel like it's to good to be true.
I know that I've made the right decision for me and my kids, and now I'm getting ready to start the next chapter in my life......when we finally told the kids, my oldest asked if it was like friends of his and I told him yes, 1 week with mom, 1 week with dad, his response "Cool, more presents at Christmas time cause there will be two houses". My youngest was concerned about pets, told him mom was taking the two cats to her place so he thinks we need to get another for dads house....dad said no, told him he could pet the fish when they were at his house, my smart 5 year old of course did not fall for this telling dad you can't pet fish!
So far the STBX and I have been getting along just fine, I hope it stays that way for the sake of my children and co-parenting.
Angie
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