Hello every one. I'm very new to this but need advice and support from people who understand.
We have a 10 month old. We separated when K was 6 months. He's lived with me since. My husband didn't ask to see him for the first 2-3 weeks. Then he saw him one Sunday for 10-4. After that he went home for the holidays for 3 weeks. Came back and continued his Sunday visits with K. At some point he started asking for overnight visits with him. I was worried he's alone and has real temper issues so I refused. But I offered him 3 day visits for a few hours, a full Sunday and every last Sunday an over night. I said for the first couple of months il sleep over too in the guest bedroom as he's so young and once he gets a handle on being alone with K he can have him by him self. He refused my proposal and stopped seeing K for 6 weeks straight and told his lawyer he doesn't want to have anything to do with K and wanted to get him adopted to me so he could give up his rights. 6 weeks later, he wanted to be back in his life and now is willing to go to parenting medeiation.
I guess what I'm asking is, how do you think this might go? What might the mediator suggest given the background? I'm very worried!
Thank you all
We have a 10 month old. We separated when K was 6 months. He's lived with me since. My husband didn't ask to see him for the first 2-3 weeks. Then he saw him one Sunday for 10-4. After that he went home for the holidays for 3 weeks. Came back and continued his Sunday visits with K. At some point he started asking for overnight visits with him. I was worried he's alone and has real temper issues so I refused. But I offered him 3 day visits for a few hours, a full Sunday and every last Sunday an over night. I said for the first couple of months il sleep over too in the guest bedroom as he's so young and once he gets a handle on being alone with K he can have him by him self. He refused my proposal and stopped seeing K for 6 weeks straight and told his lawyer he doesn't want to have anything to do with K and wanted to get him adopted to me so he could give up his rights. 6 weeks later, he wanted to be back in his life and now is willing to go to parenting medeiation.
I guess what I'm asking is, how do you think this might go? What might the mediator suggest given the background? I'm very worried!
Thank you all
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