Originally posted by beentheredonethis
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The kid hasn't even been accepted as of yet, I wouldn't be too stressed out about it at this point, how does Dad even know kid will be accepted? Has dad spoken to the ex or child about how they plan to pay their portion. Obviously he isn't responsible for the whole bill, but Dad had to of known that post secondary was something that would happen in the future? Or did he really not expect his child to go to post secondary?
I don't agree with forcing parents to pay either, but the law is there and forces a parents hand, not much anyone can do about it.
I am also a little perplexed at how you deal with the step children. My fiance has two children and I got involved with him knowing that and willing and ready to accept them. To me they are my children as well and if it means I have to go without so that they have what they need so be it. We are planning on adding a new addition to the family in the near future, but I fully understand that we have other obligations as well. Adding to our family means that we will have to be smart with our money and make sacrifices at our house because it is our choice to add another family member. I could not imagine saying that I would not make sacrifices to make sure his children had what they needed, but I guess we are different people.
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