HI -- I am writing this in hopes to help a friend of mine.
Quick story-- they were married, divorce is pending. They have 2 kiddos. S18- D13. S18 lives with his mother, attending school, has a job. D13 is living with his father, out of town and recently ( I mean within the last month ) was given custody, with mother every other weekend custody. Mother hasn't even had her first court ordered visit. The father has been sending mother nasty texts, and emails saying to stay out of his daughter's life " she doesn't want to see or talk to you " type of messages. The mothers first visitation with D13 is Dec 13th, and she has already been told that she will not get her for that weekend and to respect HIS wishes to leave her alone.
This is my question: What should she do-- what can be done? I know that there still is a few days ( 10 ) away from her visitation but, if he is already starting this BS with her-- how can she stop this NOW and get a good routine going with her little girl?
Quick story-- they were married, divorce is pending. They have 2 kiddos. S18- D13. S18 lives with his mother, attending school, has a job. D13 is living with his father, out of town and recently ( I mean within the last month ) was given custody, with mother every other weekend custody. Mother hasn't even had her first court ordered visit. The father has been sending mother nasty texts, and emails saying to stay out of his daughter's life " she doesn't want to see or talk to you " type of messages. The mothers first visitation with D13 is Dec 13th, and she has already been told that she will not get her for that weekend and to respect HIS wishes to leave her alone.
This is my question: What should she do-- what can be done? I know that there still is a few days ( 10 ) away from her visitation but, if he is already starting this BS with her-- how can she stop this NOW and get a good routine going with her little girl?
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