Hi everyone, my first post here.
I am under a ton of stress right now as I see my marriage coming to an end.
We are still together but my wife is always cold and rude to me. Yes, it is brutal.
She is from eastern Europe, we met and married there. I sponsored her to Canada in 2012 and she arrived in 2013. In 2016 we underwent IVF and our son was born in 2017.
She told a friend a couple months ago that she wants to take the child back to Ukraine to live. She even has told me this as well. Her words were that I could keep my money, just let her and our son leave.
This may have been her plan from early on. It would have been impossible for her to undergo IVF due to undisclosed other issues (no details here, but I know for a fact). I realize this does not matter.
She told me when she was 5 months pregnant and again when our son was 3 months old, she wanted a divorce to return home.
My life is extremely stressful now. I am in my mid 50's while she is 40. I have tried to be a good husband and provider. As well as a father, but more on this later. I am now a wuss as I have jumped each time she barked for 6 years. I almost want to cry in shame as I write this, knowing how much I have endured trying to follow all her orders. I was not like this before.
My first questions are about my son. Do I need to fear that she may obtain a passport for him to leave Canada? I will not give my consent at this time. As we are still together, I don't think I can place him on the passport watch list?
I applied for her citizenship which should be granted in feb-mar '19. Should I cancel this or it doesn't matter? She would still be a permanent resident here. I am terrified of doing this!
Thank you.
Older_wuss_dad
I am under a ton of stress right now as I see my marriage coming to an end.
We are still together but my wife is always cold and rude to me. Yes, it is brutal.
She is from eastern Europe, we met and married there. I sponsored her to Canada in 2012 and she arrived in 2013. In 2016 we underwent IVF and our son was born in 2017.
She told a friend a couple months ago that she wants to take the child back to Ukraine to live. She even has told me this as well. Her words were that I could keep my money, just let her and our son leave.
This may have been her plan from early on. It would have been impossible for her to undergo IVF due to undisclosed other issues (no details here, but I know for a fact). I realize this does not matter.
She told me when she was 5 months pregnant and again when our son was 3 months old, she wanted a divorce to return home.
My life is extremely stressful now. I am in my mid 50's while she is 40. I have tried to be a good husband and provider. As well as a father, but more on this later. I am now a wuss as I have jumped each time she barked for 6 years. I almost want to cry in shame as I write this, knowing how much I have endured trying to follow all her orders. I was not like this before.
My first questions are about my son. Do I need to fear that she may obtain a passport for him to leave Canada? I will not give my consent at this time. As we are still together, I don't think I can place him on the passport watch list?
I applied for her citizenship which should be granted in feb-mar '19. Should I cancel this or it doesn't matter? She would still be a permanent resident here. I am terrified of doing this!
Thank you.
Older_wuss_dad
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