Picking Your Battles...

[wretchedotis]

Originally Posted by blinkandimgone

I think one thing we forget is that 'taking the high road' isn't about what you get in return, it's about doing the right thing for no other reason than it's the right thing to do. Be a good/positive example for your children and others on how to treat people, be the man/woman you want your son/daughter to be and let the karma train handle the rest.

As much as this altruistic thiinking is something to strive for - I would be happy enough with faking it for the desired result.

It would still be much better than where me and my ex are now.
If only she could bring her self to play the 'be nice' game too.

[help66]

Was in court for pre-trial hearing.........so want no part of trial for tiny bit of pension money (all other matters settled)I try to take the high road agree to everything she wants.......offer up buyout on my pension (we were common law)...judge said I was not obligated I dont care just want it done....and my greedy x not only turned it down she asked for cost (she has legal aide) I self rep........grrrrrrrr hoping her lawyer talks sense into her....