Our court order reads that the xmas period is split 50-50 (alternating first/last), and is based on the vacation period defined by our school board. This year that means Mon Dec 20 thru Fri Dec 31 (12 days). Which means the halfway mark is the morning of Dec 26.
It seems odd because one parent gets the entire week before xmas (which is not really a holiday-ish period), and the other parent gets the xmas break itself (but not xmas day itself) .
I realise that each year the dates will shift around, resulting in different splits.
Is this a typical method for splitting xmas? Do others use this rule? I just sent email confirming xmas dates (as per court order), and my ex has responded indicated unwillingness to follow the rule this year. Am hoping she just needs someone to 'help' her read the order.)
It seems odd because one parent gets the entire week before xmas (which is not really a holiday-ish period), and the other parent gets the xmas break itself (but not xmas day itself) .
I realise that each year the dates will shift around, resulting in different splits.
Is this a typical method for splitting xmas? Do others use this rule? I just sent email confirming xmas dates (as per court order), and my ex has responded indicated unwillingness to follow the rule this year. Am hoping she just needs someone to 'help' her read the order.)
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