I was wondering, how far in advance do others work with their ex's to figure out a parenting schedule?
I know that the court orders should be pretty well set up in how the schedule works, but I am sure others have things that are vague. So with the way my ex tries to manipulate things I have started creating parenting schedules ahead of time. Last time I did it, it was for a block of about 6 months of time. I gave it to her 2 months in advance to look over and see if she either agreed or wanted to alter anything.
At that time we had a contempt motion (regardinging the schedule) and settled before court to agree to my proposed schedule. It was funny, as my ex was arguing against my schedule, and even her boyfriend pointed out that it was super easy to follow and would probably be alot better then what she was proposing. We ended up with my schedule lol.
So I sent her my proposed schedule from now for the next 6 Months. Until Christmas there really are no changes as there are no holidays, but after it can get a bit frustrating. How do other deal with this?
I know that the court orders should be pretty well set up in how the schedule works, but I am sure others have things that are vague. So with the way my ex tries to manipulate things I have started creating parenting schedules ahead of time. Last time I did it, it was for a block of about 6 months of time. I gave it to her 2 months in advance to look over and see if she either agreed or wanted to alter anything.
At that time we had a contempt motion (regardinging the schedule) and settled before court to agree to my proposed schedule. It was funny, as my ex was arguing against my schedule, and even her boyfriend pointed out that it was super easy to follow and would probably be alot better then what she was proposing. We ended up with my schedule lol.
So I sent her my proposed schedule from now for the next 6 Months. Until Christmas there really are no changes as there are no holidays, but after it can get a bit frustrating. How do other deal with this?
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