STBX text last night and said that D3 was now in a booster seat... this alarmed my bf and I, as when we weighed her on the weekend she was only 35.5lbs...now we understand scales fluctuate, but stbx is claiming D6 weighs 42lbs.
BF sent her a message back stating that he didn't understnad how she could be 42lbs when on Sunday she only weighed 35.5lbs (we weigh the children every Sunday we have them) Her response was that scales fluctuate and she didn't care she was using it. He responded and said it was her decision but he did not agree and would not be switching her to a booster.
She then emailed and said the following...
So it was ok for Brayden but not kodi? When did u become such a concerned parent. U weren't when we were together. Email me if u want to discuss this further. I will put her back in the car seat for now but pls stop the charade when ur talking to me. I was with u for ten yrs and I don't even know who u r anymore. Just email me if u have anything else pls. Sorry I texted u I should have emailed in the first place. I'm not trying to start a fight Shaun. It's just that since the kids were born I asked u to be responsible. To think about them instead of yourself. And u couldn't do it. You leave me and all of a sudden u are a caring father who puts the kids first. I don't know you any more. Why did we have to split up for you to change? I just don't understand.
He would like to respond with the following...
I don’t understand why you are getting upset for me being concerned? Their safety should be of the utmost importance. There is a reason we added the back to S6 booster seat to provide him with more protection. I have ever right to be concerned for them and will express this as necessary. I understand D3 may be excited to be in a booster seat and sees it as growing up, but until she meats the legal requirements (Being 40+lbs, reaching a height of 4’9” or turns 8 years old) I just don’t feel because she is hovering around the 40lb mark it is safe for her to be in one until she stays above 40lbs.
I refuse to address the rest of your email as it is not pertaining to the children, therefore not worth discussing.
BF sent her a message back stating that he didn't understnad how she could be 42lbs when on Sunday she only weighed 35.5lbs (we weigh the children every Sunday we have them) Her response was that scales fluctuate and she didn't care she was using it. He responded and said it was her decision but he did not agree and would not be switching her to a booster.
She then emailed and said the following...
So it was ok for Brayden but not kodi? When did u become such a concerned parent. U weren't when we were together. Email me if u want to discuss this further. I will put her back in the car seat for now but pls stop the charade when ur talking to me. I was with u for ten yrs and I don't even know who u r anymore. Just email me if u have anything else pls. Sorry I texted u I should have emailed in the first place. I'm not trying to start a fight Shaun. It's just that since the kids were born I asked u to be responsible. To think about them instead of yourself. And u couldn't do it. You leave me and all of a sudden u are a caring father who puts the kids first. I don't know you any more. Why did we have to split up for you to change? I just don't understand.
He would like to respond with the following...
I don’t understand why you are getting upset for me being concerned? Their safety should be of the utmost importance. There is a reason we added the back to S6 booster seat to provide him with more protection. I have ever right to be concerned for them and will express this as necessary. I understand D3 may be excited to be in a booster seat and sees it as growing up, but until she meats the legal requirements (Being 40+lbs, reaching a height of 4’9” or turns 8 years old) I just don’t feel because she is hovering around the 40lb mark it is safe for her to be in one until she stays above 40lbs.
I refuse to address the rest of your email as it is not pertaining to the children, therefore not worth discussing.
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