Good day everyone,
I'm fairly new to this site, but I do come back and forth for information pretaining to my seperation issues.. My last great indevour is the mobility clause that I feel that I stronghold into giving. This agreement was given for an interim custody issue. I agreed to mobility if there was a need. So lets make this story short and right to the point. My ex decieded to leave in oct 05. This was done 4 months after the signing of the interim order. I didn't think she would leave the province of ontario considering she had a excellent paying job and my 5 year old daughter was in school and a after school program also. she had many friends and was used to the community she lived in. My ex deciede she was leaving for Nova scotia. she verbly told me but never in writing. Considering that I requested this but still to this date I never did get that in writing.
Now she is living in nova scotia, I'm going thru the worse case scenerio that anyone could go thru. She is a bitter women that hates who I am and will do anything to make my life righteously miserable. I have to travel 2200 km one way to visit my daughter , who misses me terribly and I have to fight tooth and nail just to spend time with her. I petition the courts in ontario to vary the custody order and to question the mobility move. but since this is an out of province issue I have to deal with the courts of nova scotia. This is a long and lengthy delay for a hopeful end to a bitter custody fight. I don't want to take my daughter away from her mom, I feel that a child needs both parents in their lives not just one. But my ex feels that i'm a bad father and she doesn't need me in her life. I'm reitred from the military after 20 years. I provide for my family when and where they needed it. I paid for my ex's schooling for being a BBA student to a Cert Dental Assistant to her current field of study of dental hygeine. I paid all her expenses and provided a home etc. I looked after my daughter well she did her studies for three years. In those years she didnt' work one day. It was financially hard but we made it thru.. My last tour to afghanistan was the ticket that made her decide to leave. Fine we tried everything but it didnt' work. I never in my life would imagine my daughter not living with me or atleast not in the same city.. unable to see her every day is very hard and difficult. My ex left the marriage with no debit. I ended up hold the family debit in excess amout of 50g's and she to date has not paid a penny to this debit.
I have been jumping around www sites trying to figure out what rights as a father has to his daughter. All that I ask for is to have time with my daughter and to allow her to come back to ontario for a visit with me and to visit her grandparents, uncles and aunts and cousins...
Would this seem to be an unfair request for a father to have time with his daughter. the cost alone is extreme, for me to travel 6 -8 times a year and to pay for rental car and hotels is just not feasible.. this is what i tried to explain to my ex but it seems she is only out to make me look like a bad guy... but i was wondering if anyone has come across any thing simliar to my case in hand... any help would surely be appreciated.
johnny V
I'm fairly new to this site, but I do come back and forth for information pretaining to my seperation issues.. My last great indevour is the mobility clause that I feel that I stronghold into giving. This agreement was given for an interim custody issue. I agreed to mobility if there was a need. So lets make this story short and right to the point. My ex decieded to leave in oct 05. This was done 4 months after the signing of the interim order. I didn't think she would leave the province of ontario considering she had a excellent paying job and my 5 year old daughter was in school and a after school program also. she had many friends and was used to the community she lived in. My ex deciede she was leaving for Nova scotia. she verbly told me but never in writing. Considering that I requested this but still to this date I never did get that in writing.
Now she is living in nova scotia, I'm going thru the worse case scenerio that anyone could go thru. She is a bitter women that hates who I am and will do anything to make my life righteously miserable. I have to travel 2200 km one way to visit my daughter , who misses me terribly and I have to fight tooth and nail just to spend time with her. I petition the courts in ontario to vary the custody order and to question the mobility move. but since this is an out of province issue I have to deal with the courts of nova scotia. This is a long and lengthy delay for a hopeful end to a bitter custody fight. I don't want to take my daughter away from her mom, I feel that a child needs both parents in their lives not just one. But my ex feels that i'm a bad father and she doesn't need me in her life. I'm reitred from the military after 20 years. I provide for my family when and where they needed it. I paid for my ex's schooling for being a BBA student to a Cert Dental Assistant to her current field of study of dental hygeine. I paid all her expenses and provided a home etc. I looked after my daughter well she did her studies for three years. In those years she didnt' work one day. It was financially hard but we made it thru.. My last tour to afghanistan was the ticket that made her decide to leave. Fine we tried everything but it didnt' work. I never in my life would imagine my daughter not living with me or atleast not in the same city.. unable to see her every day is very hard and difficult. My ex left the marriage with no debit. I ended up hold the family debit in excess amout of 50g's and she to date has not paid a penny to this debit.
I have been jumping around www sites trying to figure out what rights as a father has to his daughter. All that I ask for is to have time with my daughter and to allow her to come back to ontario for a visit with me and to visit her grandparents, uncles and aunts and cousins...
Would this seem to be an unfair request for a father to have time with his daughter. the cost alone is extreme, for me to travel 6 -8 times a year and to pay for rental car and hotels is just not feasible.. this is what i tried to explain to my ex but it seems she is only out to make me look like a bad guy... but i was wondering if anyone has come across any thing simliar to my case in hand... any help would surely be appreciated.
johnny V
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