I currently have a court order with my ex with our 2 year old son. For the past year that we have been apart, I have had pretty much half parenting time as I have taken on many more days than what was in the court order.
It was a temporary order (I have him 2 nights and 2 days per week), and I haven't went to court to argue for officially 50/50 (based on what is happening now). I was just being if it works now I won't rock the boat (I know dumb).
Things have taken a turn for the worst now and she has decided to go back to the original court order.
As of right now though, she has went 180 and said she is leaving town right now and I can have full rights to our son blah blah. As well she has 2 daughters that are 13 and 14 that live with her and she is taking off on them too. She wants the grandma from BC to come right now and get them, well she gives no one a choice really, she just does it.
Some history, she has only been a full time parent to them just this past year and it's taken its toll apparently.
Basically, she is saying she will be gone and will not be returning till the end of the month and leaving our son, and her daughters without a mother. I'm pissed to say the least, how do the hell do you do that has a parent. You can't just take off like that.
I just want to know, do I need to go to court and can I file anything to have full temporary custody of him? My point being she is obviously unstable right now, and has a history of it with the police reports. I want her to get the mental help she needs, to be a mother to all three of her kids, as the bio dad has never been there. In reality, everything is about her by these actions...as she obviously needs mental help. Don't get me wrong I am not fighting for full, only unless she completely proves she is bad to them but they need their mom healthy mentally and emotionally bottom line.
Otherwise, she will continue to do this....erratic behaviour and it's not healthy for the kids.
Can I do that? Go to court and get temporary custody till she gets her shit together?
And what supporting evidence do I need? I have all her texts saved.
It was a temporary order (I have him 2 nights and 2 days per week), and I haven't went to court to argue for officially 50/50 (based on what is happening now). I was just being if it works now I won't rock the boat (I know dumb).
Things have taken a turn for the worst now and she has decided to go back to the original court order.
As of right now though, she has went 180 and said she is leaving town right now and I can have full rights to our son blah blah. As well she has 2 daughters that are 13 and 14 that live with her and she is taking off on them too. She wants the grandma from BC to come right now and get them, well she gives no one a choice really, she just does it.
Some history, she has only been a full time parent to them just this past year and it's taken its toll apparently.
Basically, she is saying she will be gone and will not be returning till the end of the month and leaving our son, and her daughters without a mother. I'm pissed to say the least, how do the hell do you do that has a parent. You can't just take off like that.
I just want to know, do I need to go to court and can I file anything to have full temporary custody of him? My point being she is obviously unstable right now, and has a history of it with the police reports. I want her to get the mental help she needs, to be a mother to all three of her kids, as the bio dad has never been there. In reality, everything is about her by these actions...as she obviously needs mental help. Don't get me wrong I am not fighting for full, only unless she completely proves she is bad to them but they need their mom healthy mentally and emotionally bottom line.
Otherwise, she will continue to do this....erratic behaviour and it's not healthy for the kids.
Can I do that? Go to court and get temporary custody till she gets her shit together?
And what supporting evidence do I need? I have all her texts saved.
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