Hi again, keep crawling back here for advice Here is a little current background.
Child is 19 and finished extra credits from high school. Spoke to the ex in november because was due to update cs (as per agreement annually) and last year had a broken leg so my income went down the drain. Through all her rumbling understood that my daughter not going to apply to univer this year cause she needs her to babysit her baby sister (different dad), since she is a single mother. But she understood that once our daughter is finished school cs will stop. We agreed that I will not reduce cs, so not to go through the hassle since the support will end in a couple of months anyway. We agreed that after she gets her last agreed payment, we will sign and submit the form for withdrawal to FRO.
Last week confirmed with her that the last cs payment was made and asked her to let me know when she gets it so that I can prep the form. Did not hear from her , so presuming that she has received the payment by now, went over to give her the form.
Now she says in a text that she doesnt want to talk about it right now, she is not feeling that she is ready to sign and is under a lot of stress and health problems and single mom...blah blah. She also says that daughter is not going to univer because she has no money to pay for it (she is low income).
The daughter, while finishing her credits, also worked pt on weekends. Now she finished school and quit the job. She has been trying to get another job during the week, but has hard time since she can only work morning hours and after she needs to babysit. Her mom works evenings and refuses to change shifts because she has free time while the kids are in school.
She is also stalling (because this could have been discussed before) and requesting NoA for the past years. Last CourtO was nov.2012. So between 2013(work income) & 2014 (year of injury)=average, I am overpaying about $50+. However, I have taken out some RRSPs in 2013 to pay back taxes (have proof that all went to CRA). With that averaged I underpay by about $50.
So what to do? If I file Motion to change to stop the support (because we are talking about cs going forward), But she is talking about reviewing past income and continuing the support.
Am I out of line starting this? If not, then whats my next step?
Thanks
Child is 19 and finished extra credits from high school. Spoke to the ex in november because was due to update cs (as per agreement annually) and last year had a broken leg so my income went down the drain. Through all her rumbling understood that my daughter not going to apply to univer this year cause she needs her to babysit her baby sister (different dad), since she is a single mother. But she understood that once our daughter is finished school cs will stop. We agreed that I will not reduce cs, so not to go through the hassle since the support will end in a couple of months anyway. We agreed that after she gets her last agreed payment, we will sign and submit the form for withdrawal to FRO.
Last week confirmed with her that the last cs payment was made and asked her to let me know when she gets it so that I can prep the form. Did not hear from her , so presuming that she has received the payment by now, went over to give her the form.
Now she says in a text that she doesnt want to talk about it right now, she is not feeling that she is ready to sign and is under a lot of stress and health problems and single mom...blah blah. She also says that daughter is not going to univer because she has no money to pay for it (she is low income).
The daughter, while finishing her credits, also worked pt on weekends. Now she finished school and quit the job. She has been trying to get another job during the week, but has hard time since she can only work morning hours and after she needs to babysit. Her mom works evenings and refuses to change shifts because she has free time while the kids are in school.
She is also stalling (because this could have been discussed before) and requesting NoA for the past years. Last CourtO was nov.2012. So between 2013(work income) & 2014 (year of injury)=average, I am overpaying about $50+. However, I have taken out some RRSPs in 2013 to pay back taxes (have proof that all went to CRA). With that averaged I underpay by about $50.
So what to do? If I file Motion to change to stop the support (because we are talking about cs going forward), But she is talking about reviewing past income and continuing the support.
Am I out of line starting this? If not, then whats my next step?
Thanks
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