Hoping some of you can offer some advise. My wife has asked for a Separation / Divorce after about 10 months of cheating on me. I caught her chatting on affair sites more then once but tried to work through it with counseling and stuff but she is back at it and claims she is not happy, and wants out. Well we have 2 boys 9 and 7 own a home with a mortgage and normal bills. We have been talking about trying to do this with out lawyers and have agreed to split everything 50/50. Well yesterday she hit me with custody now at 60/40 so she can have child support, we both work and I make around 55,000 a year and she make around 40,000 a year but has been back in school for over a year and when she is done in about 2 years will be able to make 80,000 to 100,000. She claims that even if we agree to 50/50 split custody that I would still pay her child support and if she wanted spousal support. If that is the case then it will be hard to get another mortgage and start over and still be able to provide for my children. First off is she right? And second is it worth going to war over? I know the courts favor the women almost all the time. But I want to be able to try and provide for my boys without them losing too much from there parents mistakes.
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Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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