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#81
02-08-2021, 11:41 PM
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I don't think there can EVER be a "termination" date for Spousal Support because of her Age, years together, the fact she left her career....all works against me....I am hoping when I finally afford to retire the amount will be reduced. In the eyes of Any judge or lawyer I am going to owe her to the day one of us dies....I have accepted that....just looking to pay the min. that will keep us both happy.
My only hope is she remarries...and agrees in writing to terminate support in the event if Common law or marriage. From everything I read I am pretty much at her mercy. As far as tax implications. I know I can claim Spousal Support payments and she has to claim the payments as income? but only after it's a signed court document. There is no inheritance, no outside monies from parents or family. Our finances are ours 100%> We have combined debt of 2 vehicles. We are splitting that debt. The house is paid for. I am staying in the house. I have agreed to pay taxes, insurance, and upkeep. In exchange she isn't going to charge me rent. If I later leave the house and she stays there she will get the same amount of time rent free until we settle or sell. I am getting $500 back from the Spousal Support payment as per the calculator we used for child support. We are both happy so far. We are going to probably get our pension $$$$ in next 2 months. We can fill out the Seperation Agreements.... Then take the paperwork to our respective lawyers....then I imagine the "fun" begins?? Lol. Wish me luck. 
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#82
02-09-2021, 07:26 PM
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#83
02-09-2021, 11:58 PM
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350 Mag is a story of caution to readers of this forum.
To future readers: This forum is not your therapists office, you should care for your emotions. A bit of proper legal advice is inexpensive and worth its weight in gold (full representation is a different issue). Don’t agree to things without advice. You have no idea what you’re doing. Many mistakes can’t be undone. Lawyers get rich fixing easily avoidable errors from the initial parts of a file.
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#84
02-10-2021, 10:34 AM
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350Mag has no idea what he wants. He loves his ex and he hates her. He has some wildly unrealistic expectations with regards to how the future may unfold. I'm hopeful that reading responses here will moderate his views on likely outcomes. You never know, people tend not to back down online, but in real life they may take it into account.
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#85
02-10-2021, 10:51 AM
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#86
02-10-2021, 06:39 PM
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I appreciate your contributions to this site Kinso.
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#87
02-11-2021, 08:19 PM
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So I should get upset, call her out, get vindictive, be mean, air my dirty laundry to her friends and family or on Facebook?
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#88
02-11-2021, 08:21 PM
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No.
You should hire a lawyer for legal questions. And a therapist for your emotions.
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