Ok so how would I deal with this now? She states because my son has ADHD he needs this activity. She also lied and said that the rec (pond) hockey we originally agreed on that he has been in for 2 years is no longer available and I checked and it is. Son is now passionate about competitive hockey. This is why I said no in the beginning because I knew all of this was going to happen. She just told me she spent $3700 on documents to have the "affidavit" changed (she always throws in the wrong terminology to sound more intimidating)
She is requesting that in the agreement we have the clause taken out about her having to ask for consent and to have hockey added into the agreement. She told her lawyer I fight her on every sport and I haven't paid for any of them. She has never given me a receipt nor asked for consent for any sport other than hockey. I always found out after that they tried soccer or tball...I would never withhold consent from those sports but would be nice to be notified they are doing them. I also don't consider a $60 reg fee for these type sports a section 7 expense. She receives full table support in the amount of $1600 a mo for 3 kids. And she just settled a lawsuit last year for $1.6mil. I am in the oil and gas industry and just scraping by...even about to have to sell our marital home which the kids lived in prior to our seperation. They have no mortgage no vehicle loans...it's all paid off. I know her medical lawsuit doesn't count as her "income" but she also states she is on "disability" for the rest of her life now. Now had she not cashed in a hefty settlement last year I don't think she would have enrolled my son and not care about the costs. The way she is soending so friviously that money will be gone in 5 yrs and son will be getting even more involved, more expensive and more time consuming with this sport. What about the other kids? What do they want to do? There is no balance and as far as I am concerned she is not encouraging their time spent with me by doing this against my concerns.
She is requesting that in the agreement we have the clause taken out about her having to ask for consent and to have hockey added into the agreement. She told her lawyer I fight her on every sport and I haven't paid for any of them. She has never given me a receipt nor asked for consent for any sport other than hockey. I always found out after that they tried soccer or tball...I would never withhold consent from those sports but would be nice to be notified they are doing them. I also don't consider a $60 reg fee for these type sports a section 7 expense. She receives full table support in the amount of $1600 a mo for 3 kids. And she just settled a lawsuit last year for $1.6mil. I am in the oil and gas industry and just scraping by...even about to have to sell our marital home which the kids lived in prior to our seperation. They have no mortgage no vehicle loans...it's all paid off. I know her medical lawsuit doesn't count as her "income" but she also states she is on "disability" for the rest of her life now. Now had she not cashed in a hefty settlement last year I don't think she would have enrolled my son and not care about the costs. The way she is soending so friviously that money will be gone in 5 yrs and son will be getting even more involved, more expensive and more time consuming with this sport. What about the other kids? What do they want to do? There is no balance and as far as I am concerned she is not encouraging their time spent with me by doing this against my concerns.
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