I came home one night finding the locks had been changed. I completely lost access to my house, kids and belongings. Through negotiations, it took over 3 months to split and retrieve my stuff that were piled in the garage because she refuse I step back into the matrimonial home. It took less than an hour for the moving guys to load the truck and leave while the cops were watching (yes... she requested for surveillance and create a drama in the neighbourhood). Unfortunately, a lot of things were missing especially items from the garage. My tool box was broken in and several tools were missing. My lawyer told me that the judge won't fu***g care so let go.
Now, she has everything else from the matrimonial home down to the little shitty accessories that we need to replace because they are a necessity for your every day living. She has most of everything from the house and she's crying to input a zero value on the corresponding line of the NFP statement for equalization purposes (it's at her advantage). She also kept a lot of my stuff I had when I was a teenager. The whole situation is theatrical (once the legal aspect is involve).
You spend a 1$ to 5$ here and 25$ to 1000$ there to replace the things you need as you move along with your life... and I guest that's it... you move forward and laugh about it because at least you move with new stuff while she's stuck with the old junk.
CONCENTRATE on the primaries; your children and your new LIFE!
SMILE! :-) and when you see your ex partner SMILE twice :-)) exaggeratedly... it will irritate her/him for sure. Showing happiness when they can't find it is priceless!
Now, she has everything else from the matrimonial home down to the little shitty accessories that we need to replace because they are a necessity for your every day living. She has most of everything from the house and she's crying to input a zero value on the corresponding line of the NFP statement for equalization purposes (it's at her advantage). She also kept a lot of my stuff I had when I was a teenager. The whole situation is theatrical (once the legal aspect is involve).
You spend a 1$ to 5$ here and 25$ to 1000$ there to replace the things you need as you move along with your life... and I guest that's it... you move forward and laugh about it because at least you move with new stuff while she's stuck with the old junk.
CONCENTRATE on the primaries; your children and your new LIFE!
SMILE! :-) and when you see your ex partner SMILE twice :-)) exaggeratedly... it will irritate her/him for sure. Showing happiness when they can't find it is priceless!
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