Hi there,
I'm obviously new around here, first post. I'm confused and concerned, I've been married for about 6 years, have D5 and I want out of my marriage. I've told my wife I'm not happy, in fact I've been down right misserable over the last half year or more. I don't hate her or have any I'll feelings towards her, I'm just done. We don't communicate at all, haven't had sex in 4 - 5 years, and at this point I don't want to.
Part of me still loves her, she loves me as far as she says, but we just can't seem to agree on anything. We have been going to coucilling for a year, I was pushing for it 3 years ago, but , well I guess it doesn't matter at this point.
I've told her how I feel, but she seems determined not to end it. I feel like a piece of crap, as I really want out, I know I do. I don't want to break up a family, it's not Dr of my culture, but im just not happy.
It's a really confusing mess, we were trying for a second child, I didn't want another, but was willing to do so my D had a sibling and my wife and another child. I was willing to do this. Now that is over, doc basically said our time is up. She is still dealing with this.
She doesn't seem to understand I want out, it's like the ostrach with the head in the sand.
We arent old, we can still go onto meet someone else. Both of us work and make good money, the house is all we need to split, as far as i can tell. Actually she makes more on paper, but I don't care, I don't want anything from her in that regards. I'm just trying to figure out how to get her to finally agree that it's over.
The councillor told us to spend an hour together each night over the next few weeks, we haven't done that. I dont want to. I feel like calling a lawyer and start to get my ducks in a row.
I'm don't know what to do. Any advice?
I'm obviously new around here, first post. I'm confused and concerned, I've been married for about 6 years, have D5 and I want out of my marriage. I've told my wife I'm not happy, in fact I've been down right misserable over the last half year or more. I don't hate her or have any I'll feelings towards her, I'm just done. We don't communicate at all, haven't had sex in 4 - 5 years, and at this point I don't want to.
Part of me still loves her, she loves me as far as she says, but we just can't seem to agree on anything. We have been going to coucilling for a year, I was pushing for it 3 years ago, but , well I guess it doesn't matter at this point.
I've told her how I feel, but she seems determined not to end it. I feel like a piece of crap, as I really want out, I know I do. I don't want to break up a family, it's not Dr of my culture, but im just not happy.
It's a really confusing mess, we were trying for a second child, I didn't want another, but was willing to do so my D had a sibling and my wife and another child. I was willing to do this. Now that is over, doc basically said our time is up. She is still dealing with this.
She doesn't seem to understand I want out, it's like the ostrach with the head in the sand.
We arent old, we can still go onto meet someone else. Both of us work and make good money, the house is all we need to split, as far as i can tell. Actually she makes more on paper, but I don't care, I don't want anything from her in that regards. I'm just trying to figure out how to get her to finally agree that it's over.
The councillor told us to spend an hour together each night over the next few weeks, we haven't done that. I dont want to. I feel like calling a lawyer and start to get my ducks in a row.
I'm don't know what to do. Any advice?
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