Don't get mad, if other's see holes in your position and positives to the other parent. Your testing your material against consensus of a public forum which many here have been down this road before.
Effectively, no one here can actually predict what will happen at your trial but are more or less giving you constructive criticism to prepare for the unexpected. The outlook in your matter will be a present future consideration once a material change has been established.
The parent's will be coming to the plate, I suspect on equal terms, with hopefully robust parenting plans that look to the kids future considering it appears to be some sort of established joint custodial situation throughout the 100 km hiatus and prior. It's going to be difficult to change.
Strangely, you came to terms, then, as joint parents, to accommodate, but not now. One thing is certain is the kids are fortunate to have 3 adult parents that care about them.
Many single parent's that have two kids live in two bedrooms apartments. They make due. It's not a crime, although it may be less than ideal to some. At least they have a place and are not living on the street.
Lastly, it's unfortunate of the one parent's bankruptcy but, I believe the student loans survived.
Effectively, no one here can actually predict what will happen at your trial but are more or less giving you constructive criticism to prepare for the unexpected. The outlook in your matter will be a present future consideration once a material change has been established.
The parent's will be coming to the plate, I suspect on equal terms, with hopefully robust parenting plans that look to the kids future considering it appears to be some sort of established joint custodial situation throughout the 100 km hiatus and prior. It's going to be difficult to change.
Strangely, you came to terms, then, as joint parents, to accommodate, but not now. One thing is certain is the kids are fortunate to have 3 adult parents that care about them.
Many single parent's that have two kids live in two bedrooms apartments. They make due. It's not a crime, although it may be less than ideal to some. At least they have a place and are not living on the street.
Lastly, it's unfortunate of the one parent's bankruptcy but, I believe the student loans survived.
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