Hi All,
Incredible what can happen in 3 months. Posted on here a few times. Really had some hope that we could work this out ourselves, that failed. Mow mediation session one and that is very shaky. My line in the sand with the mediator was that i would not tolerate any less that 50-50 split. I was very liberal with allowing access for her to my 15 yr old son. She suggests EOW with 6-10 pm visits W/Th one week and 6-10 pm W next week. we move that to week 1 Me W 6-10 pm Visit
Week 2 Me W after school until the following Monday morning.
I am not really happy about this.
I ask for Tuesday nights at my place in Week 2. She really wants monday afternoon as she is home then and can be home with him. I have a greater chance of being home early on Tuesday than her so that is the basis of the proposal. I also offer up a Th 6-10 visit for her in week 2.
Well, she loses it. Says no. Threatens to harm my relationship with my son through telling him things that don't pertain to him (see my earlier posts if interested). All over texts so I have records of this.
Now I am left with a couple of choices. One, demand this or mediation ends and bring in the lawyers. Two, just end the mediation unilaterally and retain counsel and get house sold and submit offer to settle. (probably missed a few steps but you know what I mean).
One consideration is we are still living in the same house together. Second is that she has told a story that my son does not want his life uprooted (she has told him that she may get the house) so would like more time spent with "her in the house".
Any advice?
If this went to trial is there really any way that I wouldn't get 50-50 granted? My son and I are very close and spend a ton of time together away from her already.
Incredible what can happen in 3 months. Posted on here a few times. Really had some hope that we could work this out ourselves, that failed. Mow mediation session one and that is very shaky. My line in the sand with the mediator was that i would not tolerate any less that 50-50 split. I was very liberal with allowing access for her to my 15 yr old son. She suggests EOW with 6-10 pm visits W/Th one week and 6-10 pm W next week. we move that to week 1 Me W 6-10 pm Visit
Week 2 Me W after school until the following Monday morning.
I am not really happy about this.
I ask for Tuesday nights at my place in Week 2. She really wants monday afternoon as she is home then and can be home with him. I have a greater chance of being home early on Tuesday than her so that is the basis of the proposal. I also offer up a Th 6-10 visit for her in week 2.
Well, she loses it. Says no. Threatens to harm my relationship with my son through telling him things that don't pertain to him (see my earlier posts if interested). All over texts so I have records of this.
Now I am left with a couple of choices. One, demand this or mediation ends and bring in the lawyers. Two, just end the mediation unilaterally and retain counsel and get house sold and submit offer to settle. (probably missed a few steps but you know what I mean).
One consideration is we are still living in the same house together. Second is that she has told a story that my son does not want his life uprooted (she has told him that she may get the house) so would like more time spent with "her in the house".
Any advice?
If this went to trial is there really any way that I wouldn't get 50-50 granted? My son and I are very close and spend a ton of time together away from her already.
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