I went to mediation with my ex yesterday. The mediator was a lawyer. We were told the for my 19 years old daughter I did not have to pay child support but would be required to pay s-7 expenses. I thought I was required to pay until she gets her first degree. (She’s presently in University)
Also I was married for 9 years...she said this is a long term marriage as such the guidelines say I have to pay between 12- to 20 years of spousal support. That would take me to 70 years old. Please note I separated in 2005 therefore she said I would have to retro pay. She said this is because my ex is in her 50’s. I thought it’s supposed to be half to the length of the marriage. ( my ex did make a request for spousal originally but we never agreed to anything in the last 10 years.) We have not lived together since 2005
As for the matrimonial home she said my ex is entitled to the value of today even though the house was never under her name, only mine and my moms. The house has since doubled in price.
I agreed on most things just to end this. Now it’s up to her lawyer to go over the mediators report.
Mind you my lawyer may advise me different
Somehow I don’t think this is right...what’ your opinion.
Also I was married for 9 years...she said this is a long term marriage as such the guidelines say I have to pay between 12- to 20 years of spousal support. That would take me to 70 years old. Please note I separated in 2005 therefore she said I would have to retro pay. She said this is because my ex is in her 50’s. I thought it’s supposed to be half to the length of the marriage. ( my ex did make a request for spousal originally but we never agreed to anything in the last 10 years.) We have not lived together since 2005
As for the matrimonial home she said my ex is entitled to the value of today even though the house was never under her name, only mine and my moms. The house has since doubled in price.
I agreed on most things just to end this. Now it’s up to her lawyer to go over the mediators report.
Mind you my lawyer may advise me different
Somehow I don’t think this is right...what’ your opinion.
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