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Old 03-14-2011, 07:25 PM
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i'm doing research project for my sociology class.
if anyone's parents have been divorced or if anyone who is going through a divorce has children, please please plase fill out this yes/no questionare.

it will help my team out a lot to gain some useful data

if you find any of the questions to be too intrusive to post on this thread, feel free to pm me your answers instead

also, if anyone knows of any websites or articles that have been helpful in their divorce, please link me (even if you dont feel you want to do this survey)
doesn't have to be scholarly or anything. even a webblog would be extremley helpful!

for divorced parents with children:
have you ever felt guilt towards your ex husband/wife?

have you ever expressed feeling of failure towards your ex husband/wife?

post divorce, have you ever felt resourceless?

post divorce, did you feel like the victim?

have you ever pressured your child to take your side during your divorce?

for those who have divorced parents:
did you ever experience a sense of rage during your parents divorce?

have you ever felt that you were forced to grow up quickly?

did you feel that you were at fault during your parents divorce?

during the divorce, were you ever fearful for your parents well-being?

atfer your parents' divorce, did you ever exprience conflict at school or work?

thanks to anyone who helps me out with this!
everything will be submitted anonymously when we collect the data
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Old 03-14-2011, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by sociology1103 View Post
i'm doing research project for my sociology class.
if anyone's parents have been divorced or if anyone who is going through a divorce has children, please please plase fill out this yes/no questionare.

it will help my team out a lot to gain some useful data

if you find any of the questions to be too intrusive to post on this thread, feel free to pm me your answers instead

also, if anyone knows of any websites or articles that have been helpful in their divorce, please link me (even if you dont feel you want to do this survey)
doesn't have to be scholarly or anything. even a webblog would be extremley helpful!

for divorced parents with children:
have you ever felt guilt towards your ex husband/wife?

YES

have you ever expressed feeling of failure towards your ex husband/wife?

YES

post divorce, have you ever felt resourceless?

YES

post divorce, did you feel like the victim?

YES

have you ever pressured your child to take your side during your divorce?

NO, NO, HELL NO!

for those who have divorced parents:
did you ever experience a sense of rage during your parents divorce?

NO

have you ever felt that you were forced to grow up quickly?

YES

did you feel that you were at fault during your parents divorce?

NO

during the divorce, were you ever fearful for your parents well-being?

YES

atfer your parents' divorce, did you ever exprience conflict at school or work?

YES

thanks to anyone who helps me out with this!
everything will be submitted anonymously when we collect the data
Answered in-line above.

Cheers!

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Old 03-15-2011, 10:43 PM
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thanks so much for helping us out!
any data is helpful, and your feedback is really appreciated!
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for divorced parents with children:
have you ever felt guilt towards your ex husband/wife?
No
have you ever expressed feeling of failure towards your ex husband/wife?
No
post divorce, have you ever felt resourceless?
Yes
post divorce, did you feel like the victim?
Yes
have you ever pressured your child to take your side during your divorce?
No
for those who have divorced parents:
did you ever experience a sense of rage during your parents divorce?
No
have you ever felt that you were forced to grow up quickly?
No
did you feel that you were at fault during your parents divorce?
No
during the divorce, were you ever fearful for your parents well-being?
No
atfer your parents' divorce, did you ever exprience conflict at school or work?
No

I was only 3 when my parents were officially divorced. My father gave up his rights to my brother and I and I didn't meet him until I was 18. My stepfather was the only father I ever knew and he was and is phenomenal Not sure if this helps...
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Old 03-28-2011, 07:11 PM
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thank you for filling out the questionare! any input helps a lot and it is much appreciated!
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Originally Posted by sociology1103 View Post
i'm doing research project for my sociology class.
if anyone's parents have been divorced or if anyone who is going through a divorce has children, please please plase fill out this yes/no questionare.

it will help my team out a lot to gain some useful data

if you find any of the questions to be too intrusive to post on this thread, feel free to pm me your answers instead

also, if anyone knows of any websites or articles that have been helpful in their divorce, please link me (even if you dont feel you want to do this survey)
doesn't have to be scholarly or anything. even a webblog would be extremley helpful!

for divorced parents with children:
have you ever felt guilt towards your ex husband/wife?
====not so much
have you ever expressed feeling of failure towards your ex husband/wife?
======yes
post divorce, have you ever felt resourceless?
=====yes
post divorce, did you feel like the victim?
------yes
have you ever pressured your child to take your side during your divorce=====no
for those who have divorced parents:
did you ever experience a sense of rage during your parents divorce?=========yes
have you ever felt that you were forced to grow up quickly?
=======yes
did you feel that you were at fault during your parents divorce?
yes
during the divorce, were you ever fearful for your parents well-being?
yes
atfer your parents' divorce, did you ever exprience conflict at school or work?
yes
thanks to anyone who helps me out with this!
everything will be submitted anonymously when we collect the data


answers filled in above...
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for divorced parents with children:
have you ever felt guilt towards your ex husband/wife? No

have you ever expressed feeling of failure towards your ex husband/wife? No

post divorce, have you ever felt resourceless? Yes

post divorce, did you feel like the victim? Yes

have you ever pressured your child to take your side during your divorce? NO

for those who have divorced parents: Not Applicable
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