I invite you to come to court and see my court documents.
The fact is that I want an equalization of assets and the monster refuses to give it.
The judges keep putting us to conferences instead of ordering an end.
A judge cannot prevent you from filing a motion and force you into multiple conferences (unless you have a put forth a bunch of frivolous motions and haven't been prevented from bringing more).
The first two lawyers only wrote letters and emails for full disclosure in order to settle.
You claim to have sent letters with no subsequent motions from 2 lawyers??? Again, very bizarre and inconsistent with any normal procedure.
The third lawyer finally went to court and that's when I was able to get away from him. The ex was ordered to pay some of the court costs but not enough to cover the fees.
If the end result of this court action was a restraining order (no idea why this wasn't done through the police dept) why on earth did your lawyer not request exclusive possession of the matrimonial home? No judge would find that your ex abused you...then issue a restraining order..without then granting you exclusive possession. They wouldn't order YOU out of the house....that makes ZERO sense. Especially not because you have a 26 year old, married, working kid at home..that's just nonsense. Again, this is completely inconsistent with any normal procedure.
This lawyer suggested that I leave the matrimonial house since it would be safer for me and possibly easier financially as the ex refused to pay anything.
Your ex doesn't have to agree to pay anything...you had and continue to have every opportunity to file a motion for interim SS. You claim to have had a 30 year marriage. No lawyer would say what you've suggested. They would have simply tacked on SS to whatever motion they filed earlier. Again, this is completely inconsistent with any normal procedure.
Investing 30 years into a marriage and leaving with nothing is fair? Would you do it? If your ex takes everything from you and does to you what was done to me?
Yes I'm angry because this should've been a simple divorce and the ex feels that I'm not entitled to anything.
Your ex's feelings on anything don't matter...he's not responsible for the fact that you are raging. Your situation is extremely straightforward and the only reason it wouldn't be is YOU.
NOT YOUR EX, NOT YOUR 3 LAWYERS (or the 2 you consulted), NOT THE COURT SYSTEM, NOT THE JUDGES, NOT THE ATTORNEY GENERAL...CERTAINLY NOT TAYKEN.
YOU!!!
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