My ex has now been gone for 2 months. We are no further ahead with the separation agreement and house than we were 2 months ago. After dozens of emails saying he knows he has no claim to the house and doesn't want it, he's refusing to sign the VERY BASIC separation agreement that says he won't take the house. Not because of the house, but because it says we're separated and has standard clauses about being separated. He said if I take out everything having do with being separated, he'll sign. The bank and real estate lawyer said that it has to be a separation agreement! I've told him a dozen times!
So after not having any contact with him for over a week, he emailed me on Sunday night asking why I haven't responded to him dropping the signed papers off onto my porch on Thursday. My son was home all day long and no one was here. My dogs would have gone nuts if someone had come onto the porch. He's clearly lying. When I told him I had received nothing, he turned it on me and told ME to stop lying. Yes, I've been asking for signed papers for two months, yet when I get them, I deny it.
So when I got pissed off and said I don't lie, I again stopped responding. An hour later, he invited me to go out to dinner with him and said if I did, he would sign on the spot. So, I resent the agreement via email and said that once he signs, to send it registered mail to the address I had originally provided, addressed to my lawyer. I said we do not need to meet in person in order for him to do this. He also sent texts to my kids and told my son that the separation agreement had "lots of surprises" and he couldn't sign, so blame his mother for this. My son got mad and texted him that until he signs, OSAP is withholding his money, based on two incomes. Keep in mind these are not his children. They are MY children. He has a 21 year old son, who has told him to never contact him again, so now he's harassing my kids and saying I'm turning them against him!
Then I got ANOTHER email where he says I take him for an idiot and he has options and I could have done it the easy way but now I'm making it difficult on myself. He went on to say that he's going to get in touch my kids' biological father (who abused them) and he's going to "set shit straight". Said it would be shame to have to pay back my spousal support that was court ordered.
He's nuts. The cocaine has fried his brain. His oldest brother told me he's always been a liar and that's why his two older brothers no longer speak to him. I assume this is why his son no longer speaks to him. He also told me information that my husband had lied about when we met. Information that had I known, I never would have even dated him, much less married him.
My ex told me he has no money to pay his rent or feed himself and to take pity on him because his landlord "ran out of patience" and is evicting him. Meanwhile, I find out he's been living with his youngest brother for free.
I've asked him to stop contacting me completely. I've told him to stop contacting my kids completely. We have no kids together, so there is no reason I have to allow him to call, email or text me. If I ask him to stop and he continues to create new email accounts to get past my blocking his email, can this be considered harassment? I actually ended up in the ER last week for several hours because of stress induced symptoms that were mimicking a heart attack. I can't take much more. Yesterday he emailed me six times.
So after not having any contact with him for over a week, he emailed me on Sunday night asking why I haven't responded to him dropping the signed papers off onto my porch on Thursday. My son was home all day long and no one was here. My dogs would have gone nuts if someone had come onto the porch. He's clearly lying. When I told him I had received nothing, he turned it on me and told ME to stop lying. Yes, I've been asking for signed papers for two months, yet when I get them, I deny it.
So when I got pissed off and said I don't lie, I again stopped responding. An hour later, he invited me to go out to dinner with him and said if I did, he would sign on the spot. So, I resent the agreement via email and said that once he signs, to send it registered mail to the address I had originally provided, addressed to my lawyer. I said we do not need to meet in person in order for him to do this. He also sent texts to my kids and told my son that the separation agreement had "lots of surprises" and he couldn't sign, so blame his mother for this. My son got mad and texted him that until he signs, OSAP is withholding his money, based on two incomes. Keep in mind these are not his children. They are MY children. He has a 21 year old son, who has told him to never contact him again, so now he's harassing my kids and saying I'm turning them against him!
Then I got ANOTHER email where he says I take him for an idiot and he has options and I could have done it the easy way but now I'm making it difficult on myself. He went on to say that he's going to get in touch my kids' biological father (who abused them) and he's going to "set shit straight". Said it would be shame to have to pay back my spousal support that was court ordered.
He's nuts. The cocaine has fried his brain. His oldest brother told me he's always been a liar and that's why his two older brothers no longer speak to him. I assume this is why his son no longer speaks to him. He also told me information that my husband had lied about when we met. Information that had I known, I never would have even dated him, much less married him.
My ex told me he has no money to pay his rent or feed himself and to take pity on him because his landlord "ran out of patience" and is evicting him. Meanwhile, I find out he's been living with his youngest brother for free.
I've asked him to stop contacting me completely. I've told him to stop contacting my kids completely. We have no kids together, so there is no reason I have to allow him to call, email or text me. If I ask him to stop and he continues to create new email accounts to get past my blocking his email, can this be considered harassment? I actually ended up in the ER last week for several hours because of stress induced symptoms that were mimicking a heart attack. I can't take much more. Yesterday he emailed me six times.
Comment