This is my situation---
I've been living common-law for ten years, the relationship soured when both parties were injured at work and meds and alcohol---turned my partner into a complete monster--verbal abuse--emotional abuse--really just destroyed everyone around him--anyway--he walked out the door--telling me to pay everything--the house we shared is in his name because he destroyed my credit---I gave him a personel loan of $30.000.00 to open a business that went south after only six months--this debt was never repaid--but it's been nine years--he just sold a $15.000.00 boat that he didn't pay a cent for and he kept the money and paid his bills---neither was a $12.000.00----407 bill--so here I sit alone broke--no credit--can't even have my own car-- and not sure what to do---I have paid everything--house insurance---renovation costs--morgage payments--and now I don't know what to do--walk away with nothing--I'm on a pension-- have a son living with me---two other kids that are teenagers that just had babies---my family won't speak to me because they say I was stupid to give someone so much--
Am I doomed to loose everything here--or is there an ounce of hope that I can recover monies from everything I gave this man---If anyone can steer me in the right direction--I know I need to get to legal aid--but is there a chance I can stay in this house--or can he throw me and my son out---I just need to know that maybe I can recover some of my looses.
Please don't tell me I was a complete fool---
Many Thanks For Any Advice
I've been living common-law for ten years, the relationship soured when both parties were injured at work and meds and alcohol---turned my partner into a complete monster--verbal abuse--emotional abuse--really just destroyed everyone around him--anyway--he walked out the door--telling me to pay everything--the house we shared is in his name because he destroyed my credit---I gave him a personel loan of $30.000.00 to open a business that went south after only six months--this debt was never repaid--but it's been nine years--he just sold a $15.000.00 boat that he didn't pay a cent for and he kept the money and paid his bills---neither was a $12.000.00----407 bill--so here I sit alone broke--no credit--can't even have my own car-- and not sure what to do---I have paid everything--house insurance---renovation costs--morgage payments--and now I don't know what to do--walk away with nothing--I'm on a pension-- have a son living with me---two other kids that are teenagers that just had babies---my family won't speak to me because they say I was stupid to give someone so much--
Am I doomed to loose everything here--or is there an ounce of hope that I can recover monies from everything I gave this man---If anyone can steer me in the right direction--I know I need to get to legal aid--but is there a chance I can stay in this house--or can he throw me and my son out---I just need to know that maybe I can recover some of my looses.
Please don't tell me I was a complete fool---
Many Thanks For Any Advice
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