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Old 09-07-2020, 07:28 PM
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Does anyone please have any recommendations for a private access exchange location service in Toronto?

We were using a government one which is currently closed and not sure when/if they will open.

Thank you in advance, for any input.
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Old 09-07-2020, 07:40 PM
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Can you just do it at a police station parking lot? It isn't ideal but it is free. They have cameras everywhere so any shenanigans would be recorded.
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Old 09-07-2020, 07:42 PM
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I have requested that so many times via her lawyer and they always say that it is inappropriate.

Ironically she has called police numerous times and fabricated lies and fake accusations.
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Old 09-07-2020, 07:45 PM
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What does your agreement say?
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Old 09-07-2020, 08:00 PM
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Access centre and times and dates.
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Old 09-07-2020, 08:04 PM
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She stopped all access during Covid for 75 days.

Eventually she agreed to start access again right before I brought an urgent motion.

We agreed to a neutral site.

Everything was going ok but she started her shenanigans yesterday and I want to simply use a private access centre as she started to become unhinged yesterday.
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Old 09-07-2020, 08:05 PM
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I would propose the police station, and then say that if she is able to find another location you will accept that alternate.

"As you are aware, the access centres are closed. It is in the best interests of the children that parenting times are still respecting, especially during the pandemic. I propose that we do the exchange in the parking lot of the local police station located at 435 BlueThugs Way.

If you have an alternative proposal, I would be happy to exchange in an alternate location. If you do not have an alternate location, I will see you Friday at 1pm!

Sincerely,

Donny"
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Old 09-07-2020, 08:11 PM
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Perfect!!!!!!!!

Thank you.
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I used to exchange the kids in the police station lobby. Best thing I ever did!
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Old 09-08-2020, 07:44 AM
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I would love to and have requested that for years but they always say no.

I need to make a change now because of what happened this past weekend.

If I request as Janus indicated and they say no, do I simply say that I am going to bring a motion?

It was very uncomfortable for my toddler as she kept him in the car and refused to let him out as she was ranting and trying to provoke me.

I just stayed very calm and kept repeating that I want to start our visit as she tried to escalate.
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